Comments on: Tips For The Ladies http://billcammack.com/2007/08/20/tips-for-the-ladies/ Tue, 22 May 2012 15:18:06 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Bill Cammack http://billcammack.com/2007/08/20/tips-for-the-ladies/#comment-28478 Bill Cammack Tue, 18 May 2010 13:59:52 +0000 http://billcammack.com/2007/08/20/tips-for-the-ladies/#comment-28478 @Christine: We can't disregard Opportunists & Gigolos. I wrote a post back in 2007 called <a href="http://billcammack.com/2007/11/20/marry-rich/" rel="nofollow">"Marry Rich"</a>. I know guys that specifically have hooked up with women they didn't give a damn about and had no intention of being faithful to because she already had a house and a good job and he wasn't going to have to do JACK and could still live the good life. That's not what I'm talking about in this particular article. I'm talking about the basic, stereotypical flow of how & why relationships start. I know lots of guys that have dated crazy females because they liked how they looked and they liked having sex with them. I don't know ANY guys that have deliberately dated women they're not sexually attracted to, but I know that that happens. There's no point in working if you can hook up with a female that's already making enough money for the two of you. Working is a complete waste of time. However.. This goes back to the main theme, which is the utilitarian nature of selecting women for relationships. The point is that there's something he's adding to his life.. sex, companionship, money, travel, prestige, whatever.. by aligning himself with her. Would you rather work in McDonald's and date a chick that works in McDonald's or quit your minimum-wage job and date a CEO-chick who makes your daily wage in one hour? O_o @Christine: We can’t disregard Opportunists & Gigolos.

I wrote a post back in 2007 called “Marry Rich”. I know guys that specifically have hooked up with women they didn’t give a damn about and had no intention of being faithful to because she already had a house and a good job and he wasn’t going to have to do JACK and could still live the good life.

That’s not what I’m talking about in this particular article. I’m talking about the basic, stereotypical flow of how & why relationships start. I know lots of guys that have dated crazy females because they liked how they looked and they liked having sex with them. I don’t know ANY guys that have deliberately dated women they’re not sexually attracted to, but I know that that happens.

There’s no point in working if you can hook up with a female that’s already making enough money for the two of you. Working is a complete waste of time.

However.. This goes back to the main theme, which is the utilitarian nature of selecting women for relationships. The point is that there’s something he’s adding to his life.. sex, companionship, money, travel, prestige, whatever.. by aligning himself with her.

Would you rather work in McDonald’s and date a chick that works in McDonald’s or quit your minimum-wage job and date a CEO-chick who makes your daily wage in one hour? O_o

]]> By: Christine from Louisiana http://billcammack.com/2007/08/20/tips-for-the-ladies/#comment-28476 Christine from Louisiana Tue, 18 May 2010 13:23:07 +0000 http://billcammack.com/2007/08/20/tips-for-the-ladies/#comment-28476 Yes. All we have to do is G.O! Bill, I hear women remark daily on how their eyes are opened because of your site. I hear others who tell me, (it's the first thing out of their mouths) that they are in a relationship. Smug about it. What they don't examine and have NO IDEA about is why the guy is in a relationship with them. In many cases it is because of what you say it is NOT: We don’t meet women and go “NOW I get to live in a house because she’s rich”. “NOW, I get to travel places”. “NOW I get to save my own money because I can spend hers”. BAck to supply. I know a lot of women who have allowed themselves to be in the situation described above, including myself. But NO MORE and I'm not bitter or shut down. I get it. I GET IT!!!!! Thanks Bill!!! Yes. All we have to do is G.O!
Bill, I hear women remark daily on how their eyes are opened because of your site. I hear others who tell me, (it’s the first thing out of their mouths) that they are in a relationship. Smug about it. What they don’t examine and have NO IDEA about is why the guy is in a relationship with them.
In many cases it is because of what you say it is NOT:
We don’t meet women and go “NOW I get to live in a house because she’s rich”. “NOW, I get to travel places”. “NOW I get to save my own money because I can spend hers”.
BAck to supply. I know a lot of women who have allowed themselves to be in the situation described above, including myself. But NO MORE and I’m not bitter or shut down. I get it. I GET IT!!!!!
Thanks Bill!!!

]]> By: Bill Cammack http://billcammack.com/2007/08/20/tips-for-the-ladies/#comment-28475 Bill Cammack Tue, 18 May 2010 11:03:50 +0000 http://billcammack.com/2007/08/20/tips-for-the-ladies/#comment-28475 Thanks, Christine. :) This article was from back in '07 when I was starting out and really pressing more on the humorous side of things. After a couple of years of this, I found it more useful to the community and more conducive to conversation to talk about REAL issues that someone might be able to do something about. But yeah. It's just funny when they have all these tips for women when all y'all have to do is stay looking good and be nice and intelligent people. It's *GUYS* that have to work so hard to get a rap! :D Thanks, Christine. :) This article was from back in ’07 when I was starting out and really pressing more on the humorous side of things. After a couple of years of this, I found it more useful to the community and more conducive to conversation to talk about REAL issues that someone might be able to do something about.

But yeah. It’s just funny when they have all these tips for women when all y’all have to do is stay looking good and be nice and intelligent people. It’s *GUYS* that have to work so hard to get a rap! :D

]]> By: Christine from Louisiana http://billcammack.com/2007/08/20/tips-for-the-ladies/#comment-28467 Christine from Louisiana Tue, 18 May 2010 00:25:30 +0000 http://billcammack.com/2007/08/20/tips-for-the-ladies/#comment-28467 I can't get beyond the high humor of your straightforward advice to women to "go outside." EVerything you wrote in this post makes me laugh and laugh!! I can’t get beyond the high humor of your straightforward advice to women to “go outside.”
EVerything you wrote in this post makes me laugh and laugh!!

]]> By: Bill Cammack http://billcammack.com/2007/08/20/tips-for-the-ladies/#comment-28463 Bill Cammack Mon, 17 May 2010 20:48:03 +0000 http://billcammack.com/2007/08/20/tips-for-the-ladies/#comment-28463 Hey Angela! :D Well, this is the thing.. It has to be a combination of what *YOU* think is sexy and what the guys that you want to like you think is sexy. It's no good to do something that pleases other people and makes you feel wack. My hair is naturally curly, for instance. Chicks sweat me more when it's short than when it's long. However, I personally like it better long than I like it short, so I keep it how I like it. But yeah, it's totally retarded to take a guy's word for how you should style your hair when he's not even attracted to chicks in the first place. That's like letting someone that doesn't know about basketball decide who's going to be recruited for a college team. \o/ Hey Angela! :D

Well, this is the thing.. It has to be a combination of what *YOU* think is sexy and what the guys that you want to like you think is sexy.

It’s no good to do something that pleases other people and makes you feel wack. My hair is naturally curly, for instance. Chicks sweat me more when it’s short than when it’s long. However, I personally like it better long than I like it short, so I keep it how I like it.

But yeah, it’s totally retarded to take a guy’s word for how you should style your hair when he’s not even attracted to chicks in the first place. That’s like letting someone that doesn’t know about basketball decide who’s going to be recruited for a college team. \o/

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