Comments on: How To Break Up With Your Girl http://billcammack.com/2008/03/12/how-to-break-up-with-your-girl/ Tue, 31 Jan 2012 14:09:09 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Bill Cammack http://billcammack.com/2008/03/12/how-to-break-up-with-your-girl/#comment-47889 Bill Cammack Thu, 24 Nov 2011 09:11:23 +0000 http://billcammack.com/2008/03/12/how-to-break-up-with-your-girl/#comment-47889 hmm... Well, Matt. If you're actually over the chick in the USA, you can tell her that your deployment is going to be longer than you thought (assuming you're in the US Armed Forces, since I can't think of why else someone would go to Korea), and that it's not fair to her to have her wait for you when you might not be coming back for ages. On the other hand.. If you're not sure you're going to stay with the chick you met in Korea, make your decision when you feel sure about it. No point in alienating the American chick and then ending up dumping the chick from Korea and then you're SOL. hmm… Well, Matt. If you’re actually over the chick in the USA, you can tell her that your deployment is going to be longer than you thought (assuming you’re in the US Armed Forces, since I can’t think of why else someone would go to Korea), and that it’s not fair to her to have her wait for you when you might not be coming back for ages.

On the other hand.. If you’re not sure you’re going to stay with the chick you met in Korea, make your decision when you feel sure about it. No point in alienating the American chick and then ending up dumping the chick from Korea and then you’re SOL.

]]> By: matt http://billcammack.com/2008/03/12/how-to-break-up-with-your-girl/#comment-47485 matt Wed, 16 Nov 2011 10:13:56 +0000 http://billcammack.com/2008/03/12/how-to-break-up-with-your-girl/#comment-47485 i have read alot of messages over here.. amm i need help! lol i left california to go here to korea.. and i find someone over here but i still have a girl back in the states.. like u said bill i dont want the painful exit for her.. i still wanted to be friends with her after.. but if i do what u post, i just want some ideas so i can start do what i gotta do.. i have read alot of messages over here.. amm i need help! lol i left california to go here to korea.. and i find someone over here but i still have a girl back in the states.. like u said bill i dont want the painful exit for her.. i still wanted to be friends with her after.. but if i do what u post, i just want some ideas so i can start do what i gotta do..

]]> By: Phillip http://billcammack.com/2008/03/12/how-to-break-up-with-your-girl/#comment-46950 Phillip Tue, 08 Nov 2011 10:38:11 +0000 http://billcammack.com/2008/03/12/how-to-break-up-with-your-girl/#comment-46950 i am very appreciative of your advice. I will try this and follow up at a later time to tell either the closing or the continuing of our relationship. lol i feel like i should have payed you. Its nice to be able to ask a simple question and get a simple answer,very rare at this day and age. Thank you again friend, Phill i am very appreciative of your advice. I will try this and follow up at a later time to tell either the closing or the continuing of our relationship. lol i feel like i should have payed you. Its nice to be able to ask a simple question and get a simple answer,very rare at this day and age.

Thank you again friend,
Phill

]]> By: Bill Cammack http://billcammack.com/2008/03/12/how-to-break-up-with-your-girl/#comment-46949 Bill Cammack Tue, 08 Nov 2011 10:30:05 +0000 http://billcammack.com/2008/03/12/how-to-break-up-with-your-girl/#comment-46949 Interesting scenario, Phillip. I think that what I would do in that situation is I would first try to figure out my demands if I were going to remain in a relationship with her. Once I figured out what "staying with her" looks like for me, I'd tell her that this situation isn't working for me and start a conversation that's either going to lead towards the goals I decided on in stage 01, or will lead to her saying that she can't be involved in whatever it is that I want, which means we'll both agree to break up, with no fault on either side. Irreconcilable Differences. After that, she would probably agree to the demands, but then the question would be whether her actions match her words. If they did, and the new situation works for me the way I figured it would, I'd stay in the pocket. If she didn't change anything, I'd give it a grace period and then inform her that I've had enough and I'm done with this. Good Luck! :D Interesting scenario, Phillip.

I think that what I would do in that situation is I would first try to figure out my demands if I were going to remain in a relationship with her. Once I figured out what “staying with her” looks like for me, I’d tell her that this situation isn’t working for me and start a conversation that’s either going to lead towards the goals I decided on in stage 01, or will lead to her saying that she can’t be involved in whatever it is that I want, which means we’ll both agree to break up, with no fault on either side.

Irreconcilable Differences.

After that, she would probably agree to the demands, but then the question would be whether her actions match her words. If they did, and the new situation works for me the way I figured it would, I’d stay in the pocket. If she didn’t change anything, I’d give it a grace period and then inform her that I’ve had enough and I’m done with this.

Good Luck! :D

]]> By: Phillip http://billcammack.com/2008/03/12/how-to-break-up-with-your-girl/#comment-46850 Phillip Sat, 05 Nov 2011 11:34:08 +0000 http://billcammack.com/2008/03/12/how-to-break-up-with-your-girl/#comment-46850 no your correct. but i have a soft spot for bright headlights and a solid bumper if you catch my drift. guess my point was, idk if shes actually that busy and actually is tired, or she jus doesnt give to shats about me. and as far as me putting the effort in on this thing, regardless i like talking to ppl and getting different opinions. i appreciate your thoughts on the matter and i have not been calling/txting her. lol hasnt phased her yet. i just dont want to be like well you dont give a phuck bout me so im done only to hear. im just really tired and i want to see you but blah blah blah your a dick F off. because i DID legitamatly like her when she was her past self. id like that back if thats even possible, no your correct. but i have a soft spot for bright headlights and a solid bumper if you catch my drift. guess my point was, idk if shes actually that busy and actually is tired, or she jus doesnt give to shats about me. and as far as me putting the effort in on this thing, regardless i like talking to ppl and getting different opinions. i appreciate your thoughts on the matter and i have not been calling/txting her. lol hasnt phased her yet. i just dont want to be like well you dont give a phuck bout me so im done only to hear. im just really tired and i want to see you but blah blah blah your a dick F off. because i DID legitamatly like her when she was her past self. id like that back if thats even possible,

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