Why don’t women approach me?

A reader writes:

“I’m a guy. Why don’t women approach me?”

That’s always situational. It depends on what she likes and it depends on what you’re like. The first place you want to go is to read life isn’t fair. If you aren’t cute or well-built or have a great personality or sense of humor (or, of course, all of the above! :D) then you’re at a SERIOUS disadvantage to begin with.

The problem is that everybody wants to date the top chicks. A LOT OF WOMEN are being completely overlooked and underdated because they fall outside of a certain range of what guys consider HOT/HAWT. This means that unless you can envision and internalize your station in life, you’re going to delude yourself into thinking that you can get the same girls the next man can get, when, in reality, you’re like a little league player batting against a MLB pitcher.

So, the first thing you might want to recognize is that you’re not “fly”, so chicks aren’t SUPPOSED to be approaching you.

If that’s the case, then you need to make moves to accentuate the positive. One way to do that is to dress better. Chicks like colorful things, also things that sparkle. Distract them from your looks with stylish gear & maybe a nice watch if it fits your persona. Also, be a really, really, REALLY nice guy. This is to your advantage because often, when guys “have it like that” that chicks just like them off the bat, they get souped up. Due to the fact that they can pick up a new chick in, like, 5 MINUTES, women are romantically expendable to them and it shows in their demeanor. By being a nice guy and appreciating women, regardless of how wack you look, you have a chance.

Another good trick is to find out what her hobbies are and feign interest. Of course, this only works if you know something about her ahead of time. So next time you go the bar, bring a copy of the book you heard her talking to her friends about. Flip to a page around 3/4 of the way through the book so it looks like you’re deeply engrossed in it. Watch her make her way over and strike up a conversation 😉

… Oh yeah… Buy the cliff’s notes too, in case you ACTUALLY have to talk to her ABOUT the book. 😀

So that covers it if you’re not a good-looking guy to begin with. She’s not approaching you because…. she doesn’t feel like it! So make sure you attract her with gimmicks, smoke & mirrors. However, what if you ARE attractive, and she’s STILL not approaching you?

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Well, first of all, you might not be HER type, physically. Just because a lot of chicks give you compliments doesn’t mean that ALL of them want to hook up with you. Assuming that’s not the case, you just might be too much for her to handle, and she knows damned well that she’s not going to have *ANY* control over you, so she doesn’t dare step to you and let you know what she wants. Women like mentally strong guys, but they need to feel like they have some say in what goes on. They need to feel that they have some sort of effect on you, or perhaps leverage. Without that leverage, they feel like their relationship could end any day when you just say “Nah… Not interested. Don’t feel like seeing you this week. Later.” If a gal can’t see in her mind’s eye being with you and having there be SOMETHING about her that’s unique and compelling you to stay with her, she’s not likely to step, because she’s already seeing the end of her relationship with you before it even starts.

Finally, although there are probably another million reasons a chick might not step to a guy she likes, as much as we hate rejection as guys, women hate it MUCH, MUCH, MUCH MORE! 😀 You have to consider that they’re brought up to get stuff for free just from their looks. Get into parties for free. Have drinks bought for them for free. Get taken shopping for free. Get invited out on yachts for free. Get put up at a Jersey Shore beach house over a three-day weekend for free…… So they’re VERY used to people just giving them things. That includes raps.

The fact that you haven’t already approached her to throw your hat in the ring is a red flag to her. In her experience, a guy that’s interested in her offers her some kind of bribe to “listen to his demo”. If she knows that you’ve seen her, and you haven’t come over and introduced yourself, that means she might very well walk up to you, try to strike up a conversation and get rejected. 🙁 Hate it when THAT happens! hahahaha 😀 So it’s the safer play to hang out with her girls or whatever group she came out with and keep checking you out, but never actually step to you.

Having said that, don’t expect her to walk all the way over to you unless she’s just that confident about herself, which is a fantastic thing! 😉 For the most part, chicks will put themselves within striking distance for *YOU* to rap to them. You still end up doing the work, but what she did to facilitate that was to make herself available. She deserves credit for not sitting on a couch against a wall all night, surrounded by friends she’s never going to hook up with anyway… looking like the king surrounded by the rook and a row of pawns. So acknowledge her gesture with a smile and “hello” and then it’s business as usual from there. 😉

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  1. Sometimes this sht makes you want to kill yourself! Fuuuuuuuukkk!! I can’t tell if I’m physically unattractive to them, personally unattractive to them, or just the wrong race!! Deeeeeaaaath!!

  2. @Chill: Don’t let it stress you out. 🙂

    Make moves to do whatever self-improvement you can, but also, it’s a function of the types of ladies you’re approaching. Unfortunately, the hotter they are, the more in demand they are and many times, the less likely they are to even listen to what a guy they’re not interested in has to say.

    Read the last four paragraphs of Life Isn’t Fair.

    Good Luck! 😀

  3. “For the most part, chicks will put themselves within striking distance for *YOU* to rap to them.” – I had this situation come up at a bar while I was wingman-ing for a friend. What followed was a classic case of shit your stoopid ass friend should not say to women who you have just watched close the tab at their bar table just to get up and sit right next *you* at the bar after your wingman buddy broke the ice when you ran away to the men’s room… but I digress. What was my point, oh yeah, it does actually happen and it is a pretty cool and bold thing when the ladies meet you halfway. 🙂

  4. @Steve: Well, that’s a different story, when chicks see you as a “Mark” and have decided they’re gonna keep their ducats in their pockets and get nice off of YOUR funds.

    I actually had the reverse happen to me, in a way. I was at this hotel bar, and saw these two gals doing NOTHING, meaning they were sitting at a table, talking to each other and having a drink, like they could have done AT HOME, so I chatted them up.

    It seems like they were waiting for a particular type of person, because they weren’t interested in what I had to say and faked leaving by excusing themselves, getting up from their table and leaving the entire bar.

    Right after that, they started playing dance music, so I started dancing with one of the ladies that was ALREADY hanging out with us. That’s when I noticed that the extra two had returned, and were now standing around on the side with nobody interested in dancing with them.

    That’s what they get for going to a social situation and being anti-social, haha. Similarly, chicks who had a tab and closed it to leech off of yours need to get what they deserve… NOTHING! 😀

  5. Ya know, I didn’t see it that way, and had “The Kid” been there I’m sure things would’ve turned out differently. Entirely possible they were trying to leech drinks, BUT they were quite willing to chat with us (maybe they were gonna chat and roll just to say that they had done more than stare at each other all night? Which is cool too since we were lamely looking to do the same). Anyway I broke the ice (they were nice and in my league) after Maverick prevaricated then settled on a dogfight with his weak bladder. From there things went well and we were all having fun until Mr. Conversation Killah 😉 said, “You know, SMOKING is bad for your health” to two nurses in their late 30’s, who were stepping out for a smoke. I think it was also the longest sentence he’d spit out up to that point because he’s *kinda shy*. That’s when :The world went into bullet time: BUMP BUMP – I saw their faces change indicating they were closing, I saw my buddy obliviously being oblivious, I saw a drop of condensation run down my low ball glass, I remembered some things for my grocery list, a lonely dog howled in the night, crickets chirped, and somewhere deep inside me a little man in a clown suit was screaming, “noooooooooooooooooo”…
    But it was too late. They closed up shop and there was no amount of tap dancing that one man could do.
    Man, I love my boy (he’s my best and oldest friend) and I’m not saying we were close to getting any play but given that we were hard up we couldn’t afford mission critical mistakes… Anyway, that was a few years ago and neither instance has recurred: having the ladies “step” to us or Maverick using Surgenon General warnings as pick up lines. 😀

  6. @Steve: oh, ok. 🙂 I see what you mean by “closed their tab and came over”. I suppose my point was that they didn’t need to close out in order to kick it with y’all, but yeah, that’s a good thing, the way you describe it now.

    As far as your boy, I think I need to write a post about getting dudes to STFU when they don’t have anything to say that’s going to get anybody laid.

    That’s something that needs to be assessed QUICKLY so that a solution can be decided upon ASAP. You’ve got to have the guys that initiate the convos with the ladies and the guys that close the deal. If you’re not ADDING to the group’s props, you’re SUBTRACTING! 😀

  7. “By being a nice guy and appreciating women, regardless of how wack you look, you have a chance”

    This is patently not true. A nice guy is a lady’s friend, little else. The saying goes… ‘nice guys finish last’.

    The truth is that more often than not, women are attracted to self-absorbed men who periodically, exhibit a soft side to their narcissism. What that does is indicate to the ladies that you’re a challenge but have hope of being redeemed. This is a lot different that the classic pussywhipped engineering/premed type.

  8. Essentially, you’re absolutely right, Randy. I was attempting to offer a ray of HOPE! 😀

    You will notice, though, that before that statement, I said “So, the first thing you might want to recognize is that you’re not ‘fly’, so chicks aren’t SUPPOSED to be approaching you”.

    Nice guys definitely finish last. I know this because I’m a nice guy, haha and I’ve “finished last” to some INSANELY INFERIOR dudes because they were the ones who were more aggressive with their raps. I mean, on paper, visually, physically, mentally, across the board, I should have easily “gotten the girl” instead of them, but technique won the day, as the guys knew what bullshit to feed the chicks to get them to lay down and then summarily discarded them, as was their plan all along. 😀

    The reason the “narcissism soft-side” technique works is that chicks like to believe that they’re special. It’s better for their self-esteem to feel like they pulled a guy that’s extremely discriminating when it comes to women than it is for them to believe that either he’s a stone-cold player or that he’s just trying to get some from any gal that will give it to him.

    Also, as you mention, it presents the guy as a challenge, and we all know how women LOOOOOVE to change things, so they’re thinking about how they’re going to “make him theirs”, when, in reality, he’s running the same game on as many chicks as he met in the last week. 😀

  9. 1> “chicks like to believe that they’re special”
    2> “women LOOOOOVE to change things, so they’re thinking about how they’re going to “make him theirs”.
    Hmmm… I have a cunning game plan: Present myself as a polished but *sincere* flatterer with several mildly bad habits (like narcissism, no drug addiction or psychotic plays unless you’re a real actor or rock star) that are not readily apparent so as to do a slow reveal over time.
    Now if I could just figure out how to close… and dance I’d be set! 😀 Quick question, Super Bill: so at what point do women get tired of this childlike man bullshit? Face it, if you ignore the *need* for sex I’ve just described a 5 year old! LOL

  10. When do women get tired of this?

    Never.

    There are women who were BORN tired of it and women who became accustomed to it and aren’t interested in it anymore, but if you meet a chick that’s currently in this state, she’s not going to get tired of it.

    The “fact” that you’re a badboy and you’ve chosen to spend time with her is what she’s using to VALIDATE to herself that she’s special. It’s like cowboys who are the only one to break a horse or guys that think they’re the only ones that got their girl to give it up.

    Therefore, similar to the cowboys that doesn’t want to stop riding the horse until he breaks it, the women who are into this sort of stuff don’t want to quit, because it would be an acknowledgement of failure accompanied by a loss of self-esteem.

    That’s what’s so funny/backwards about this situation. 🙂 What women SHOULD do is break north when their guys are acting like jerks, because that would actually BOLSTER their self-esteem that “they could do better”… but instead, they keep hanging on, waiting for the horse to trample them… again.

    As far as your particular game plan, you’d have to pick flaws that SHE felt like she could change. Narcissism, for instance, is an actual PERSONALITY DISORDER, according to the DSM-IV. Unless she thinks she’s smart enough to psychoanalyze you, break you down mentally and rebuild you, that’s not a good flaw to have for this particular purpose.

    It has to be something simple, like you use the word “bitches” in your vocabulary every time you mean “women in general”, not “women acting crabby” or “guys acting like bitches”. Eventually, you let her feel like she’s getting through to you and that you’re seeing the light that you should be more verbally respectful towards women.

    That’s something she can feel she can change… well… assuming she talks to you at all after you call her a bitch a few times! 😀

  11. OK,I’ll pass on the serious mental disorders. Phew, that was close!
    Next time “I roll up into” The Village Lantern I’ma be all like, “WHASSUP, BITCH!” and see how many fish I can hook. Maybe I’ll spin in some F-bomb while I’m at it (that’s pretty natural anyhow), “You fucking uptight bitches wanna’ party?” – am I on the right track, Bill?

  12. Here’s the skinny…

    Confidence is attractive-
    desperation is not
    A polite gentleman is attractive-
    a gushing fool is not-keep compliments to a minimum and NEVER mention her looks, she will sense you are hunting her and be turned off. Don’t look at her like she is your last meal, she will be insulted!!
    Don’t say ‘can I have your number ?’
    say- What is your number?

    REMEMBER- good women want to be treated with kindness and respect by gentlemen who have confidence are interesting,and are a challenge. Funny is great to make her feel at ease.

    As soon as you act like a needy fool you are dead in the water.

    1. Hey Queen. Thanks for the comment. 🙂

      Agreed that confidence is attractive and desperation isn’t.
      Agreed that “good” women want to be treated with kindness & respect, etc.
      Agreed that a sense of humor takes you a long way with women.

      The rest of what you said depends on what floats her boat. There are some women that LOVE to hear compliments all the time. The key there is to comment on her looks from a position of POWER, not of NEEDINESS. You can tell her her face or body looks good and she’ll get the picture that you just wanna DOG THAT if you have the right air about you at the time.

      The number thing is subjective as well. Some women don’t react well to instructions, such as “What’s your number” (which is a variation on “Give me your number”). Some women want to be asked. The trick is figuring out which one she wants before you say anything at all.

      As far as her knowing that you’re hunting her, she SHOULD ALREADY KNOW THAT, because you spoke to her. Guys speak to women they want to have sex with… ESPECIALLY at bars and other social functions. As a matter of fact, if she doesn’t know you’re hunting her, you might end up trapped in “the friend zone” and never recover from blundering the position.

      Also, you can just as easily turn a chick off by NOT hunting her as you can by HUNTING her. It only depends on whether she wants to give you some or not. If she doesn’t, whatever you do SUCKS. If she does, whatever you do is GOLD to her.

    1. Hey Jason. 🙂

      In some situations you’re right. In the worst-case scenario, every female available to you wants things that you don’t have now and are never going to have. That’s a messed up situation, for sure.

      Second worst-case is that all the women YOU WANT want things that you don’t have and aren’t ever going to have. In that situation, all you need to do is lower your standards, and there are lots of women available.

      You also might need to change locations. If you live in the sticks, and there are only like 15 girls available, you’re short. It’s all a numbers game, man. The more the merrier. I know it seems like a large brick wall and that women all SEEM the same after a bunch of the same experience with them, but the game you need to play is finding that needle in the haystack.

      Good Luck! 😀

  13. Bill,
    You are usually RIGHT ON in almost everything you post but I beg to differ my brother on one of the main points you made in this article.

    That point was to really get a woman’s interest a guy needs to be “nice”.

    No No and No

    Guys who are “nice” are the ones who oftentimes in life finish last.

    “Nice” guys are the ones left with a huge mortgage, Alimony, not seeing their kids etc while the wife they were nice too is shacking up with her boyfriend after divorcing the “Nice” guy.

    “Nice” guys are the ones sulking off home with no play after laying down a few bills on dinner, a Broadway show and flowers…while the woman he just treated “Nice” is calling up another dude…who is not so “Nice” to give her the loving the “Nice” guy did not get.

    Come On Bill…we need you to stay strong my brother and don’t go soft…keep telling it like it is and don’t start those guys who don’t have as much experience and play as you to mess up their life (love life, finances etc) by being nice…

    1. Thanks for the comments, Jake, and you’re absolutely right. 🙂

      In fact, if you scroll up in the comments, reader “Randy” said the same thing here => http://billcammack.com/2008/03/16/why-dont-women-approach-me/#comment-18229 and I replied to him here => http://billcammack.com/2008/03/16/why-dont-women-approach-me/#comment-18229 which I will copy and paste, and then address your particular statements:

      Essentially, you’re absolutely right, Randy. I was attempting to offer a ray of HOPE! 😀

      You will notice, though, that before that statement, I said “So, the first thing you might want to recognize is that you’re not ‘fly’, so chicks aren’t SUPPOSED to be approaching you”.

      Nice guys definitely finish last. I know this because I’m a nice guy, haha and I’ve “finished last” to some INSANELY INFERIOR dudes because they were the ones who were more aggressive with their raps. I mean, on paper, visually, physically, mentally, across the board, I should have easily “gotten the girl” instead of them, but technique won the day, as the guys knew what bullshit to feed the chicks to get them to lay down and then summarily discarded them, as was their plan all along. 😀

      The reason the “narcissism soft-side” technique works is that chicks like to believe that they’re special. It’s better for their self-esteem to feel like they pulled a guy that’s extremely discriminating when it comes to women than it is for them to believe that either he’s a stone-cold player or that he’s just trying to get some from any gal that will give it to him.

      Also, as you mention, it presents the guy as a challenge, and we all know how women LOOOOOVE to change things, so they’re thinking about how they’re going to “make him theirs”, when, in reality, he’s running the same game on as many chicks as he met in the last week. 😀

      Now.. 😀 Let me attempt to elaborate on what I was saying, because I agree with you that it’s kind of vague and seems to imply that Nice Guys don’t finish last, which they most definitely do.

      The first point is that that particular advice was for someone that is ALREADY. LOSING!!! 😀 .. If you’re already not getting any girls, it’s in your best interest to try ANYTHING that might improve how they perceive you… and, Yes.. That includes doing something that would normally get you run over by chicks like a truck. You’re *already* getting run over… If I suggest for you to roll over on one side, either you get run over again, like you’ve already been getting run over, or MAAAAAYBE something changes for you.

      The second point is, and this just came up on Facebook yesterday, Nice Guys are intimidated by attractive women. Sharks are intimidated also, but they’re willing to throw their hat in the ring because they know it’s a numbers game, and it’s better to get rejected by 60 chicks and pull 1 than it is to get rejected by 0 and pull 0.

      Because of this, attractive women meet A. LOT. OF. JERKS.

      There’s no reason for a guy to treat a gal like she’s special if he has another 59 women he wants to meet to see if he can get some. Whatever he doesn’t like about her, he’s just going to bounce and spend time with a different chick. He doesn’t even have to pretend to like her as a person. He doesn’t even have to play it off that the only reason he’s talking to her is so he can get laid, and that if she’s not down with the program, this conversation is over.

      THEREFOOORREEEEE 😀 … If you’re already losing, and you’re already not getting any raps, and no girls like your physical presentation, I say (that’s my story, and I’m stickin’ to it! haha) that being nice to them (whether you actually feel that way or not) is at least an opportunity for you to differentiate yourself from the wolfpack that’s always trying to tag up on her ass.

      Now… I’m not saying that’s going to get you laid. I’m saying that’s going to get you CONSIDERATION, which is the first step to getting laid… Women are strange like that. If you look busted, but then they really, really, really, REALLY like you, you have a chance of somehow becoming sexually viable to them. I can’t understand this at all, because no matter how much I like a chick’s personality, she still LOOKS the same to me, and I’m not going to be more physically turned on by her without a change in her body type, dressing style, whatever.

      On top of that, not only do you have your foot in the door with this one chick, but who do you think is going to get the call to roll to parties where all her girlfriends are going to be? o_O the dude that stepped to her, didn’t get on, told her to go screw herself and then bounced, or the guy that actually talked to her and that she considers a “friend”?.. See how that works? You might get stuck in the Friend Zone with this one chick, but that means all of her homegirls are fair game. You walk in the door ENDORSED by a chick whose opinions about guys they respect. Does that mean you have to be “friends” with any of the rest of them? Nope. But the point is, you showed up at the party with an automatic entourage instead of by yourself, as usual, or with one or more OTHER GUYS that don’t know what they’re doing when it comes to rapping to women.

      So it’s a “Try to get up out of the road so you don’t get run over again” last ditch effort. It’s a kickstart. It’s like when you’re in the hospital and they shock you with the pads. 😀

      As far as the rest of what you said, you’re talking about LONG-TERM NICENESS! hahaha Of course, that’s not the way to go. I talked about what happens to Long-Term Nice Guys in my safe sex video:

      So, to review… 😀

      If you’re already losing, do whatever you can to try to improve your image. This includes all the stuff you SHOULDN’T do, which is buying girls drinks http://billcammack.com/2008/03/05/buy-a-girl-a-drink-somehing-for-nothing/ using gimmicks, borrowing your friend’s car (or, at least, getting him to let you drive it past the club while he sits in the passenger seat, HAHAHA!), lying, talking about jobs you don’t have or record companies you’re not affiliated with, and, Yes… BEING NICE, because if you don’t do anything differently, you’re going to get what you’ve BEEN GETTING, which is NOTHING.

      However.. Only get involved in relationships with chicks that have mutual respect for you. That’s YOUR job, to figure that out before you commit. Dudes don’t know when to turn it off with the “niceness”/gullibility. If a chick is using you for your money, she’s going to keep doing it as long as she can, or until she meets a richer guy to leech from. In fact, she might keep both of y’all, haha Now That’s Pimpin’!!! >:D

      So yeah.. You gotta do like my man Swayze in “Road House”:

      I want you to be nice…
      ..untiI it’s time to not be nice.
      Well, how’re we supposed to know when that is?
      You won’t. I’ll Iet you know.
      You are the bouncers. I am the cooIer.
      All you have to do is watch my back and each others’.
      Take out the trash.

  14. “If you aren’t cute or well-built or have a great personality or sense of humor (or, of course, all of the above! :D) then you’re at a SERIOUS disadvantage to begin with”

    So in other words, BE What women want. Don’t be yourself. So much of diversity hunh? If you are male and you do not fit into “what women want” you are socially excluded from society. From even the possibility of having a relationship, right? yet, we often hear about women’s sufferage. Talk about oppression man. I am sorry that men do not have the right to be themselves. But I guess we can see how people like Adolf Hitler and other horrors in history were embraced and even worshiped. So long as “he has money”. Or “The personality”, he’s A OKAY. Right? men must mold themselves into what other people want. Right? Just so women will accept us. because there is so much out here against being a man. We must reaasure ‘women’ that we are okay, ‘safe’, so whatever you do, don’t be an artist or anything that will make you ‘different’ in women’s eyes. Because that will give you a distinct disadvantage. Plus as the author said, women are raised to “receive gifts based on their looks”. So given that that reflects an equal and just society. One must embrace that fact and know that in order to get ahead a man must cater to that fact of privledge that is ‘given’ to women o nthe basis of their gender. Yes, this all makes a lot of sense. No wonder VA tech happened and a number of other shootings. It’s not hard to see the almost insane levels of societal pressures placed on males in this joint. It’s pretty sad. What’s worse is the amount of male complacency and female support for this institutionalized system of male degradation.

    1. Hey “Truth Speaker”. My apologies for not replying to this when you posted it.

      I don’t agree with everything you said, but your overall point is valid. There’s no way around this. Reality is Reality. If a chick doesn’t want you, you have a tough row to hoe to get a date, sex, a relationship, marriage, or anything else from her.

      I understand why this makes guys frustrated and angry. However, I can’t complain, at 5’9″ if chicks primarily want to date guys that are 6’3″ and taller. If that’s the case, that’s the reality I live in, and I have to come up with gimmicks or styles to figure out how to get her attention and then how to KEEP her attention so I can stay in the game.

      I have never in my life been standing next to a guy who said anything remotely approaching “That girl looks busted. I think I want to meet her and start a relationship with her.”

      Similarly, women aren’t interested in guys they aren’t interested in, for whatever reason(s) that might be.

      Also, being that society has created the rules of the game such that the men have to chase the women, the guys that don’t approach and aren’t magnetizing the chicks automatically with their looks or whatever lose out by natural selection. The girls will not approach. Period. The guys that approach the girls have a chance. The guys that don’t do not.

      That isn’t a good thing, but that’s what it is.

      Non-attractive guys are going to have to find other ways of getting girls. This is why I disagree with your “artist” statement. Being an artist, or musician, or poet, can place information in front of a woman that might make her interested in spending time with you. You most definitely have to find a way to make yourself stand out in the crowd.

      I agree with you that this puts a lot of pressure on males, but there’s nothing to be done about that. The game isn’t going to change. Ya gotta be in it to win it. \o/

      My best advice for disgruntled dudes is to pull the best girl you can get and retire.

  15. You guys are trying to be “tongue in cheek” about all this, but you really do want to take women out on dates and be with them. Maybe the truth is that guys are fed up with the game and its rules and are holding out, waiting until they are older , for women to approach them, when women are running out of time and can no longer play these games.
    Numbers show that men are approaching women a lot less now.

    1. I agree with Steve’s comment that what you’re suggesting would be a game, Dave, but you make an interesting point.

      It would be a valid point, except dudes want to get laid NOW, not wait until they get old. 🙂

      You’re right, however, that the longer men and women stay in the game, the more the relationship value shifts towards men.

      I’m sure men *are* approaching women a lot less, because on the whole, they’re tired of getting rejected every day and night.

      However, you also have to consider the effect of social media.

      Thanks to http://facebook.com , http://okcupid.com , and http://plentyoffish.com , guys don’t have to approach chicks in bars anymore. We already know who we’re going out with before we leave the house.

      Also, I think the system of male degradation that Truth Speaker mentioned is working, and it’s creating a society of degraded males.

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