In some situations you’re right. In the worst-case scenario, every female available to you wants things that you don’t have now and are never going to have. That’s a messed up situation, for sure.

Second worst-case is that all the women YOU WANT want things that you don’t have and aren’t ever going to have. In that situation, all you need to do is lower your standards, and there are lots of women available.

You also might need to change locations. If you live in the sticks, and there are only like 15 girls available, you’re short. It’s all a numbers game, man. The more the merrier. I know it seems like a large brick wall and that women all SEEM the same after a bunch of the same experience with them, but the game you need to play is finding that needle in the haystack.

Good Luck! :D

Agreed that confidence is attractive and desperation isn’t.
Agreed that “good” women want to be treated with kindness & respect, etc.
Agreed that a sense of humor takes you a long way with women.

The rest of what you said depends on what floats her boat. There are some women that LOVE to hear compliments all the time. The key there is to comment on her looks from a position of POWER, not of NEEDINESS. You can tell her her face or body looks good and she’ll get the picture that you just wanna DOG THAT if you have the right air about you at the time.

The number thing is subjective as well. Some women don’t react well to instructions, such as “What’s your number” (which is a variation on “Give me your number”). Some women want to be asked. The trick is figuring out which one she wants before you say anything at all.

As far as her knowing that you’re hunting her, she SHOULD ALREADY KNOW THAT, because you spoke to her. Guys speak to women they want to have sex with… ESPECIALLY at bars and other social functions. As a matter of fact, if she doesn’t know you’re hunting her, you might end up trapped in “the friend zone” and never recover from blundering the position.

Also, you can just as easily turn a chick off by NOT hunting her as you can by HUNTING her. It only depends on whether she wants to give you some or not. If she doesn’t, whatever you do SUCKS. If she does, whatever you do is GOLD to her.

Confidence is attractive-
desperation is not
A polite gentleman is attractive-
a gushing fool is not-keep compliments to a minimum and NEVER mention her looks, she will sense you are hunting her and be turned off. Don’t look at her like she is your last meal, she will be insulted!!
Don’t say ‘can I have your number ?’
say- What is your number?

REMEMBER- good women want to be treated with kindness and respect by gentlemen who have confidence are interesting,and are a challenge. Funny is great to make her feel at ease.

As soon as you act like a needy fool you are dead in the water.