It’s kind of “funny” how Social Media allows us to connect to each other so much more and simultaneously makes us screen each other so much more. It’s not like back in the day when you messed with a chick and never saw her or heard from her ever again in life. Now, you’re liable to have a couple hundred mutual friends with her and you wouldn’t be able to escape her in Zimbabwe! :D

She was across the way, so i know what u mean about the not going with chicks from your neighborhood, work, gym. I went out with her and well i dropped her after a couple incidents… Turns out she had PTSD and well that was not fun – as she was former army and was over there.

As for the phone number situation – i hate facebook – as that is should be another topic – as most of my friends know who and what i deal with. I never post my numbers on fb – and even screen people – as u know some times stalkers pose as other people to look at your profile – or get intel as my stalker told me… but thats enough of back in the day – which was 3 weeks ago lol thanks bill hope i inspire u to write a couple more topics…LOL

“Funny” that you mention wackos, because I’ve been watching a lot of “Reality Television” lately, and just about EVERY SINGLE PERSON has some kind of jacked up background that they bring to the table that occurred before they were even in their 20s. I had never realized or considered actual mental imbalance as being a prevalent issue, but you’re absolutely right and it’s something I have on my list to blog about.

As far as stalker chicks, what you have to do is a) make sure they don’t live anywhere near you, b) don’t bring them around your way and c) have decoy contacts. I learned this waaaaaay back in the day. You don’t want random chicks having your actual number because you don’t want to have to change it every time some chick freaks out.

oh.. Also, as FOYINE as they might be, don’t kick it to chicks where you currently work or where you want to work because they’ll be right there to cockblock you whenever they see you with a different chick. hmm… I might have to add THIS topic to the list as well! haha Cheers! :D

As for the out of your league chick is awesome – did that too. But… I have a question about the stalker chick… oh i had one of those and well she was difficult to throw off. Plus the meds did not help… lol but heck will follow u on your blog – i was just enjouying reading each of these topics u write. I have done some of the not having sex with the busted chick… good tips! I am writing those down. lol thanks Bill

If you would like to expand on your statement, I’ll be able to give you an opinion on the actual situation.

From what you typed, make sure you realize that busted chicks can be stuck up as well. Just because a chick’s unattractive doesn’t mean she’s not going to be choosey or stick to her guns about wanting a certain “type” of guy.

I’ve seen this with guys too… It’s like when they should actually be happy with whatever chick is willing to kick it with them, they keep swinging for the fences and going for the better-looking girls that don’t want to have anything to do with them.

So, being rejected by a busted chick, even though it HURTS! hahaha… That doesn’t say anything about YOU at all.

Also, by your statement “touch a girl”, you’re in one of those generic states where you’re trying to get on AT ALL. That’s a tough situation for guys to be in. You’ll feel more relaxed… actually WAY more relaxed after you finally tag up for the first time.

“Touch a girl” might also be part of the problem with your rap, if there IS a problem at all. Going into situations thinking that way gives you an impersonal air that chicks don’t really dig. They’d rather think that YOU think there’s something special about them.. not that they’re walking life support for the, eh, you know. :)

Good Luck.