Comments on: Top 10 Mistakes Girls Make When Trying To Get A Guy http://billcammack.com/2008/07/18/top-10-mistakes-girls-make-when-trying-to-get-a-guy/ Thu, 24 May 2012 05:50:55 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Frank http://billcammack.com/2008/07/18/top-10-mistakes-girls-make-when-trying-to-get-a-guy/#comment-52752 Frank Wed, 02 May 2012 19:38:01 +0000 http://billcammack.com/?p=1125#comment-52752 "...So, if buying the drink at first, that doesn’t show respect (how can it?). To me that only translates into “You caught my eye and I want to try to get some” Im gonna have to respectfully diagree... First Let me say that I do understand everyones point. Buying is disrespectful... not buying shows respect! Having said that, If I approach you on the street corner with a beer, that might be disrespectful and appear to look like Im trying to get some BUT how would that apply if you are IN A BAR!!! Ive been known to make YOUR drink the topic of convesration and then when Im good and ready to get myself another Ive offered to get you one too... buts ITS A BAR! If you want me to discuss literature maybe you should be at the coffee bar in StarBucks... How can offering someone water in a watering hole be considered disrespectful??? and FYI: Uhm be it convo, drink, or a stick of gum... if I offered YES that means YOU caught MY eye! Thats the genesis of this here dance, you caught me eye! To suggest that all it means to you is that I spotted you just means that we are now on the same page!!! “…So, if buying the drink at first, that doesn’t show respect (how can it?). To me that only translates into “You caught my eye and I want to try to get some” Im gonna have to respectfully diagree…
First Let me say that I do understand everyones point. Buying is disrespectful… not buying shows respect!

Having said that, If I approach you on the street corner with a beer, that might be disrespectful and appear to look like Im trying to get some BUT how would that apply if you are IN A BAR!!! Ive been known to make YOUR drink the topic of convesration and then when Im good and ready to get myself another Ive offered to get you one too… buts ITS A BAR! If you want me to discuss literature maybe you should be at the coffee bar in StarBucks… How can offering someone water in a watering hole be considered disrespectful???
and FYI: Uhm be it convo, drink, or a stick of gum… if I offered YES that means YOU caught MY eye! Thats the genesis of this here dance, you caught me eye! To suggest that all it means to you is that I spotted you just means that we are now on the same page!!!

]]> By: Jean http://billcammack.com/2008/07/18/top-10-mistakes-girls-make-when-trying-to-get-a-guy/#comment-52740 Jean Mon, 30 Apr 2012 18:39:17 +0000 http://billcammack.com/?p=1125#comment-52740 I can see where Kay is coming from, but I have to admit that I agree with Bill. I personally don't feel that a guy buying me a drink is respectful if he does so just as an ice breaker. To me, that means he lacks confidence in himself and as well originality. On the other hand, if a fella has engaged in conversation for a little while and discretely or quietly pays for the lady's drink, then that shows a bit more of a "keeper" and not a player. So, if buying the drink at first, that doesn't show respect (how can it?). To me that only translates into "You caught my eye and I want to try to get some". I can see where Kay is coming from, but I have to admit that I agree with Bill. I personally don’t feel that a guy buying me a drink is respectful if he does so just as an ice breaker. To me, that means he lacks confidence in himself and as well originality.

On the other hand, if a fella has engaged in conversation for a little while and discretely or quietly pays for the lady’s drink, then that shows a bit more of a “keeper” and not a player.

So, if buying the drink at first, that doesn’t show respect (how can it?). To me that only translates into “You caught my eye and I want to try to get some”.

]]> By: Dan http://billcammack.com/2008/07/18/top-10-mistakes-girls-make-when-trying-to-get-a-guy/#comment-50575 Dan Sat, 28 Jan 2012 00:25:21 +0000 http://billcammack.com/?p=1125#comment-50575 Men don't "buy a woman's time". The 7 minute rule is bullshit. I will buy one to be nice. If a woman thinks she's entitled just because I'm talking to her, I'm definitely not going to be impressed. Men don’t “buy a woman’s time”. The 7 minute rule is bullshit. I will buy one to be nice. If a woman thinks she’s entitled just because I’m talking to her, I’m definitely not going to be impressed.

]]> By: Bill Cammack http://billcammack.com/2008/07/18/top-10-mistakes-girls-make-when-trying-to-get-a-guy/#comment-46583 Bill Cammack Thu, 27 Oct 2011 11:16:46 +0000 http://billcammack.com/?p=1125#comment-46583 This is an interesting question, Teresa. :) First of all, you have to recognize that whatever he's telling you isn't necessarily the truth. If we're willing to take his word for the situation, what you would want to do is get him to spend more time with you, so he can get back used to the single life instead of the "married" life. One of your problems, though, is that chicks with bunches of kids are usually pretty desperate, so she may be feeding him and directly paying him money to spend time with her, and guys aren't too likely to pass up sources of free food and free money, so it might be a tough row to hoe for you to replace her. Good Luck! :D This is an interesting question, Teresa. :)

First of all, you have to recognize that whatever he’s telling you isn’t necessarily the truth.

If we’re willing to take his word for the situation, what you would want to do is get him to spend more time with you, so he can get back used to the single life instead of the “married” life.

One of your problems, though, is that chicks with bunches of kids are usually pretty desperate, so she may be feeding him and directly paying him money to spend time with her, and guys aren’t too likely to pass up sources of free food and free money, so it might be a tough row to hoe for you to replace her.

Good Luck! :D

]]> By: Teresa http://billcammack.com/2008/07/18/top-10-mistakes-girls-make-when-trying-to-get-a-guy/#comment-46463 Teresa Wed, 19 Oct 2011 17:04:26 +0000 http://billcammack.com/?p=1125#comment-46463 I met a guy that has a gf of 4 months. He thinks she is great but she has 3 kids and no time for him. He likes her and her kids, but the time is limited. He also does know that he wants to raise the three kids along with his own. He sees that he can have a relationship with me and we are free together to spend quality time whenever we want. How do I get him to break it off with her. I feel he wants to but is afraid to hurt her. I met a guy that has a gf of 4 months. He thinks she is great but she has 3 kids and no time for him. He likes her and her kids, but the time is limited. He also does know that he wants to raise the three kids along with his own. He sees that he can have a relationship with me and we are free together to spend quality time whenever we want. How do I get him to break it off with her. I feel he wants to but is afraid to hurt her.

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