Most women do know that men are whores if they have any sense but there’s a lot of people (male and female) who don’t have any sense, so there you go.

That’s why I’m saying that women need to learn to tell the difference between men that believe what they believe and men that don’t. When you feel like everyone should or will adhere to the same moral or ethical standards, you’re taking yourself out of the game and making it easier for guys to trick you by doing things you’re not looking for.

I agree with you that women should think more carefully about who they decide to get involved with. One of the main problems is that y’all are brainwashed from birth to get married to someone. Guys are not. We can get married or not get married, it’s not going to change anything about our lives or how we perceive ourselves.

This is why women tend to sell out for relationships. It’s more important to be IN a relationship than to be involved with the right person. If women were more comfortable with who they are, with or without a man, it would be a much stronger position to bargain from. If women believed their faces looked fine without makeup, the makeup industry would tank. If women believed they looked and felt fine being overweight, the weight loss and women’s fitness industries would tank.

Unfortunately, “going for self” doesn’t equate to thinking like guys, because we have different internal motivations for becoming physically involved with each other. The sooner women recognize that they’re different from men, the faster they’ll build their own base of power and have more leverage in the relationship, dating and catcalling discussions.

I actually think women should start thinking “more like guys.” I think we should be just as self-serving, etc. We should stop trying to bargain and simply say….more of us graduate from college, there are more of us in the workforce than men and if we don’t like how things are going in the world it’s going to fucking change.