Comments on: Top 10 Mistakes Guys Make When Trying To Get A Girl http://billcammack.com/2008/07/30/top-10-mistakes-guys-make-when-trying-to-get-a-girl/ Thu, 24 May 2012 05:50:55 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Bill Cammack http://billcammack.com/2008/07/30/top-10-mistakes-guys-make-when-trying-to-get-a-girl/#comment-52506 Bill Cammack Mon, 09 Apr 2012 08:29:09 +0000 http://billcammack.com/?p=1280#comment-52506 Bobby: I agree with both Paul and Robert's comments. Could be chemistry or lack thereof. Could be that she feels you're too attractive for her and "out of her league" and she doesn't know how to deal with that. A third issue is that women have a fantasy that they can control men, and that's easier to mentally convince themselves of if they don't feel like the guy can pick up women whenever he wants to. Sometimes, just like how women "act blonde" to get guys, you have to dumb it down to get girls. Add a few calculated flaws so they're not as intimidated. You don't have to keep that up after you've already bagged them, I'm just saying that if your normal presentation is too much for them, tone it down until they get used to you, then turn it back up. As far as hooking up with more-attractive or less-attractive women, you have to realize that they didn't always look like this. A lot of women, until they actually become good-looking, experience a lot of rejection and internalize that. She might be FOYINE right now, but she's not thinking that she is. Meanwhile, the less-attractive chick may be mentally souped up, to where she's considering herself a prize to you. That makes things tougher for your rap. Basically, you have to treat every situation individually to mazimize your potential to get on. Bobby: I agree with both Paul and Robert’s comments.

Could be chemistry or lack thereof. Could be that she feels you’re too attractive for her and “out of her league” and she doesn’t know how to deal with that.

A third issue is that women have a fantasy that they can control men, and that’s easier to mentally convince themselves of if they don’t feel like the guy can pick up women whenever he wants to.

Sometimes, just like how women “act blonde” to get guys, you have to dumb it down to get girls.

Add a few calculated flaws so they’re not as intimidated.

You don’t have to keep that up after you’ve already bagged them, I’m just saying that if your normal presentation is too much for them, tone it down until they get used to you, then turn it back up.

As far as hooking up with more-attractive or less-attractive women, you have to realize that they didn’t always look like this.

A lot of women, until they actually become good-looking, experience a lot of rejection and internalize that. She might be FOYINE right now, but she’s not thinking that she is.

Meanwhile, the less-attractive chick may be mentally souped up, to where she’s considering herself a prize to you. That makes things tougher for your rap.

Basically, you have to treat every situation individually to mazimize your potential to get on.

]]> By: Bill Cammack http://billcammack.com/2008/07/30/top-10-mistakes-guys-make-when-trying-to-get-a-girl/#comment-52505 Bill Cammack Mon, 09 Apr 2012 08:22:56 +0000 http://billcammack.com/?p=1280#comment-52505 wow. Good Luck with that, Renier. The best bet for your situation is honest, authentic communication. If she doesn't tell you what she feels went wrong with your relationship, you can't decide whether it's something you can fix or something you want to fix. Also, ask close friends of yours their honest opinion of you, in case there's something about yourself that you're not noticing. I always find the reactions and comments fascinating when I ask women if they believe I love them. wow. Good Luck with that, Renier.

The best bet for your situation is honest, authentic communication.

If she doesn’t tell you what she feels went wrong with your relationship, you can’t decide whether it’s something you can fix or something you want to fix.

Also, ask close friends of yours their honest opinion of you, in case there’s something about yourself that you’re not noticing.

I always find the reactions and comments fascinating when I ask women if they believe I love them.

]]> By: renier http://billcammack.com/2008/07/30/top-10-mistakes-guys-make-when-trying-to-get-a-girl/#comment-52463 renier Fri, 06 Apr 2012 17:08:24 +0000 http://billcammack.com/?p=1280#comment-52463 I been married for 16 years.so my wife left me.des 22,what is the chance for hur to return,she live by her brother,i never fight or drink alcahol,maybe se got bored she is 47 and i am 50 she is under family infiunce. I been married for 16 years.so my wife left me.des 22,what is the chance for hur to return,she live by her brother,i never fight or drink alcahol,maybe se got bored she is 47 and i am 50 she is under family infiunce.

]]> By: Bobby http://billcammack.com/2008/07/30/top-10-mistakes-guys-make-when-trying-to-get-a-girl/#comment-52425 Bobby Wed, 04 Apr 2012 09:27:35 +0000 http://billcammack.com/?p=1280#comment-52425 Robert i'm guessing so too,actually i usually get stares from girls whenever i'm out at the mall or other social grounds (excluding bars) because i'm also really tall (6'4').so it can be frustrating sometimes when some of the not so hot girls i approach,start putting up fronts or act like they are doing me a favor by taking time out to hang with me,usually i start thinking things like "what the hell,i'm doing you a favor too and have value as well and i would even beat you in the looks department" and @Luke i hope that is really true, because i get irritated at some girls' responses sometimes because it can be discouraging..but overall i usually succeed with many of the girls i approach except a few,but it never lasts long lol,so i'd also like to hear Bill's take on this..thanks Robert i’m guessing so too,actually i usually get stares from girls whenever i’m out at the mall or other social grounds (excluding bars) because i’m also really tall (6’4′).so it can be frustrating sometimes when some of the not so hot girls i approach,start putting up fronts or act like they are doing me a favor by taking time out to hang with me,usually i start thinking things like “what the hell,i’m doing you a favor too and have value as well and i would even beat you in the looks department” and @Luke i hope that is really true, because i get irritated at some girls’ responses sometimes because it can be discouraging..but overall i usually succeed with many of the girls i approach except a few,but it never lasts long lol,so i’d also like to hear Bill’s take on this..thanks

]]> By: Paul http://billcammack.com/2008/07/30/top-10-mistakes-guys-make-when-trying-to-get-a-girl/#comment-51342 Paul Thu, 16 Feb 2012 01:23:47 +0000 http://billcammack.com/?p=1280#comment-51342 @Bobby The less attractive girl might have thought you were too good-looking for her so she doubted your sincerity...thought you were just trying to hook-up. On a similar note, some women only want a relationship with a less attractive man because they feel he is unlikely to stray since he's dating up and other women aren't attracted to him. @Bobby
The less attractive girl might have thought you were too good-looking for her so she doubted your sincerity…thought you were just trying to hook-up.
On a similar note, some women only want a relationship with a less attractive man because they feel he is unlikely to stray since he’s dating up and other women aren’t attracted to him.

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