Comments on: Ladies: Why He Won’t Call You His Girlfriend

By: Angel

Angel — Fri, 27 Jan 2012 16:09:04 +0000

Thanks Bill! I have been using sex as a bartering piece myself and was just doing some research to defend my argument. You just made my argument for me. Kudos for your honesty and thank you for just proving my theory to a T… Men are Jerks!

By: SRC

SRC — Mon, 09 Jan 2012 17:45:33 +0000

I am a cougar I suppose — not in the sense that I prowl for younger men to “bag” as some sort of hunt as the name suggests, but I am young for my age and happen to be attracted to younger men.

I am 54 (I do not look it — so many tell me)and attractive still. My man is 34 and we have a very intimate thing going on. We also live together.

Recently, we were at a store and the female clerk asked what our relationship was to each other (which I thought was an odd ass question) he replied, “she’s one of my besties.” It hurt. Badly.

I understand on one level, I truly do, but I feel so diminished by that one little statement that I am now wondering if I should simply move out and let him find someone he is comfortable with. I know the age thing is just not acceptable to a lot of folks. But I constantly have younger men hitting on me — it is not as if I look like an old lady! LOL

I am very down about this. But it is what it is I guess and I would rather have an honest response than a lie. It just hurts when someone tells you that you are their soul mate, etc. And then gives this response to a question leveled at them by an attractive cashier. I wish him the best. It bites.

By: Bill Cammack

Bill Cammack — Thu, 24 Nov 2011 10:30:24 +0000

Hey Seiko. :)

The thing about the dating game is that some guys have no intention of having just one chick. It just doesn’t make any sense. Why bother having one when you can have two, three, or seven? :D

So the main thing is for you to get to a position with him where he’ll have an honest, authentic conversation with you and REALLY tell you whether he’s interested in having a girlfriend or wife AT ALL, in the first place, and whether he’s considering YOU that way in the second place.

Good Luck! :D

By: Seiko

Seiko — Mon, 21 Nov 2011 05:34:57 +0000

I love this article it’s very true
I like the fact that you give pros n cons
And it relates to me in a way but confuses me

Cause I’ve been seeing this guy for a year and a half now, we slept together, we argue we make up .. He takes me out, I chill with him n his friends, I know his friends, family… But no commitment .. I left him for a few months cause I got fed up he text me trying to get me to see him.. I know he’s talks to other chicks n he knows I know.. But one day I try to hope he’ll ask me out n be commited to me but after speaking to my friends and readying your article I’m just fooling myself and it’s high time I leave n never turn back’

But keep writing more stuff
Luv it :)

By: Bill Cammack

Bill Cammack — Tue, 08 Nov 2011 11:06:37 +0000

Normally, “The girl I’m seeing” means “The girl I’m having sex with”.