Comments on: How To Get Over Your Ex-Girlfriend http://billcammack.com/2008/11/02/how-to-get-over-your-ex-girlfriend/ Thu, 18 Mar 2010 10:04:37 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Bill Cammack http://billcammack.com/2008/11/02/how-to-get-over-your-ex-girlfriend/#comment-18293 Bill Cammack Mon, 10 Nov 2008 04:46:33 +0000 http://billcammack.com/?p=2316#comment-18293 Sorry, Steve... I never got a notification that you posted this and only saw it because I was writing <a href="http://billcammack.com/2008/11/09/ladies-how-to-get-over-your-ex-boyfriend/" rel="nofollow">"Ladies: How To Get Over Your Ex-Boyfriend"</a>. hmm... Revenge Fantasies? I just looked at my post again and didn't see any. I guess you're referring to tapping her sister or mother.... Those aren't "revenge fantasies". :D Those are COURTESIES you extended to her by making her relatives off-limits while you were in a relationship to her. You deprived yourself of doing what YOU wanted to do for HER sake. Therefore, they're actually SATISFACTION fantasies, not REVENGE fantasies. You're expressing your new-found freedom by doing what you would have done in the first place if you weren't putting every ounce of your willpower towards respecting your (now-ex) girlfriend. :D Like I said, if the doesn't have hawt relatives, it's a non-issue. Who cares? I see your point about alcohol as memory erasure. I didn't mean long-term, I meant short-term. This is one of the reasons why people like to claim alcohol as an excuse for having sex with someone they weren't supposed to. They temporarily FORGOT that they had a bf/gf/husband/wife and want to be forgiven for their transgressions because "they weren't themselves". This is why alcohol comes in handy. Besides... It's a different experience now that you don't have to explain yourself to someone the morning after, no? :D Sorry, Steve… I never got a notification that you posted this and only saw it because I was writing “Ladies: How To Get Over Your Ex-Boyfriend”.

hmm… Revenge Fantasies? I just looked at my post again and didn’t see any. I guess you’re referring to tapping her sister or mother…. Those aren’t “revenge fantasies”. :D

Those are COURTESIES you extended to her by making her relatives off-limits while you were in a relationship to her. You deprived yourself of doing what YOU wanted to do for HER sake. Therefore, they’re actually SATISFACTION fantasies, not REVENGE fantasies. You’re expressing your new-found freedom by doing what you would have done in the first place if you weren’t putting every ounce of your willpower towards respecting your (now-ex) girlfriend. :D

Like I said, if the doesn’t have hawt relatives, it’s a non-issue. Who cares?

I see your point about alcohol as memory erasure. I didn’t mean long-term, I meant short-term. This is one of the reasons why people like to claim alcohol as an excuse for having sex with someone they weren’t supposed to. They temporarily FORGOT that they had a bf/gf/husband/wife and want to be forgiven for their transgressions because “they weren’t themselves”. This is why alcohol comes in handy.

Besides… It’s a different experience now that you don’t have to explain yourself to someone the morning after, no? :D

]]> By: Ladies: How To Get Over Your Ex-Boyfriend | Bill Cammack http://billcammack.com/2008/11/02/how-to-get-over-your-ex-girlfriend/#comment-18291 Ladies: How To Get Over Your Ex-Boyfriend | Bill Cammack Mon, 10 Nov 2008 03:33:36 +0000 http://billcammack.com/?p=2316#comment-18291 [...] week, I let the fellaz know how to get over an ex-girlfriend. This week, I have tips for the ladies for what to do when that relationship [...] [...] week, I let the fellaz know how to get over an ex-girlfriend. This week, I have tips for the ladies for what to do when that relationship [...]

]]> By: Steve http://billcammack.com/2008/11/02/how-to-get-over-your-ex-girlfriend/#comment-18278 Steve Fri, 07 Nov 2008 16:26:28 +0000 http://billcammack.com/?p=2316#comment-18278 Bill, ya know, I read this and didn't have a very good reaction to it. (I guess I was expecting "serious" from a guy who refers to himself in the third person as "The Kid"? :D) Anyway, would enacting revenge fantasies actually help someone move on? I'll buy going to the gym if you've been slacking (down to a two pack?) but what would you do if your ex didn't have a hot (hawt?) sistah/mothah situation and you already blew your wad trying to live the high life when you were with her? Then what?? HUH!?!?!? Then you mis-prescribe alcohol as a means of memory erasure when it's probably better used as a sedative (I think it helps to cut down on the late night crying... but I can't quite remember - LOL) and should've been listed under "hobby" anyway. Five days later and I still can't stop tsk, tsking over this one. Tchah, mon! Is this your idea of responsible bloggin'? ;) Bill, ya know, I read this and didn’t have a very good reaction to it. (I guess I was expecting “serious” from a guy who refers to himself in the third person as “The Kid”? :D)
Anyway, would enacting revenge fantasies actually help someone move on? I’ll buy going to the gym if you’ve been slacking (down to a two pack?) but what would you do if your ex didn’t have a hot (hawt?) sistah/mothah situation and you already blew your wad trying to live the high life when you were with her? Then what?? HUH!?!?!?
Then you mis-prescribe alcohol as a means of memory erasure when it’s probably better used as a sedative (I think it helps to cut down on the late night crying… but I can’t quite remember – LOL) and should’ve been listed under “hobby” anyway.

Five days later and I still can’t stop tsk, tsking over this one. Tchah, mon! Is this your idea of responsible bloggin’? ;)

]]> By: Bill Cammack http://billcammack.com/2008/11/02/how-to-get-over-your-ex-girlfriend/#comment-18247 Bill Cammack Sun, 02 Nov 2008 21:03:30 +0000 http://billcammack.com/?p=2316#comment-18247 @Jenn: lololol hahahaha Don't worry! :D The version for the ladies will be completely different. This one was for the fellaz! :D Stay tuned for "How To Get Over Your Ex-Boyfriend"! :D @Jenn: lololol hahahaha Don’t worry! :D

The version for the ladies will be completely different. This one was for the fellaz! :D

Stay tuned for “How To Get Over Your Ex-Boyfriend”! :D

]]> By: TheJennTaFur http://billcammack.com/2008/11/02/how-to-get-over-your-ex-girlfriend/#comment-18245 TheJennTaFur Sun, 02 Nov 2008 20:33:24 +0000 http://billcammack.com/?p=2316#comment-18245 All women who read post the best remedy is to consume your time with something such as a HOBBY and pay for a therapist so you do not have all your BUSINESS in the street! You are straight up silly, Bill! All women who read post the best remedy is to consume your time with something such as a HOBBY and pay for a therapist so you do not have all your BUSINESS in the street! You are straight up silly, Bill!

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