You’re right.. Dating isn’t going to help anybody. The gal will be LUCKY if she can go back to what she was doing before because she may very well have alienated her former friends with her behavior once she found “The One”. Now, she’s going to try to fall back on her support system until she finds THE NEXT “One” and abandons them again.

It isn’t so much that a woman *IS* a whore if she gets around.. It’s that she’s CALLED a whore. Unfortunately, they did such a good job brainwashing y’all that you believe it on your own and stop yourselves from living your own lives however you really feel like living them. This is necessary in order to shame y’all into keeping your legs closed because before DNA testing and “The Maury Show”, there was no way to prove paternity so your best defense was that your woman would keep her legs closed on her own (other than giving you some) out of fear of being stigmatized, labeled and ridiculed.

The real point here is that the technique doesn’t work the same because in general, men and women aren’t in relationships for the same reasons. The actual advice is “To get over one chick, screw 10 others”.

This works for a lot of guys because the only thing they actually miss about their ex-girlfriend is the lack of immediate availability of sex. They incorrectly assume that what they’re feeling means they miss their girlfriend, and a lot of guys crawl back to her for this reason whereas they wouldn’t have if they had understood that they were missing getting laid, not that chick in particular.

This DOESN’T work for guys that miss the actual relating to that one chick when she’s gone. You can’t replace one person’s personality with someone entirely different and have the same experience. You also can’t replace someone that you spent years with with some chick you met the weekend after y’all broke up and you hooked up with her in the bar bathroom.

This DEFINITELY DOESN’T work for women because y’all don’t select guys for sex. You select guys for comfort, reliability and an amount of controllability. When y’all break up with guys, you’re leaving a foundation that you built for a long time and a comfort zone that you’re used to. The only way to have that with someone else is to build it all over again with *ONE* guy. Hooking up with several guys isn’t going to be of any benefit to you.

So since guys hook up with gals for way more superficial reasons than gals hook up with guys, the playing field isn’t anywhere close to being even. Females wonder how they’re going to fall in love again and guys wonder how they’re going to get laid again.

Mostly, what women’s problems are when they get into a breakup situation is that y’all can’t focus on more than one guy at a time. You pour your entire lives into this one guy and then when it breaks up, you’re lost in the sauce. Clueless. Everybody else is NOBODY to you, so you have go go back to square one and start all over. You don’t have any close male friends to spend time with because you alienated them all when you thought you found “The One” and retired. Since you didn’t maintain any of your male relationships, you have to commiserate with your girlfriends until you meet a guy that you want to start the process all over with.

So my advice to women is to stop acting like you don’t have to be friends anymore with guys that aren’t your boyfriend, because when you get dumped, you’re going to go looking for these guys, hoping to find some sympathy and a shoulder to cry on and meanwhile, these dudes don’t give a **** because you abandoned them when you thought you had it made.

I can see how dating a lot could serve as a distraction for some dudes, like playing lots of golf or hoops since you now have all this free single-guy time, but I can’t imagine the dude would be a good date ESPECIALLY if he’s doing it to “make the pain go away”. Just sounds like really bad advice and not like anything an editor would let slide in a serious article. I can see it now… he’d be ruining someone else’s good time out with creepy/weepy stories about his ex. Over and over again.

I’m betting my .02 that Bill’s gonna say the chick should go back to doing whatever it was she was doing before she met the dude which is pretty much the course anyone should follow.
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So, since if a woman is a slut/whore whore dates a zillion guys, what is your answer to this? How would you turn this advice around for a woman? Thnx! :D