Comments on: Why Women Have To Be Attractive And Men Don’t http://billcammack.com/2008/12/05/why-women-have-to-be-attractive-and-men-dont/ Thu, 24 May 2012 05:50:55 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Bill Cammack http://billcammack.com/2008/12/05/why-women-have-to-be-attractive-and-men-dont/#comment-48509 Bill Cammack Mon, 05 Dec 2011 19:09:08 +0000 http://billcammack.com/?p=2610#comment-48509 Hear, Hear, Steve! :D haha I'm still in touch with FishingRod. She's doing well! :D Hear, Hear, Steve! :D haha

I’m still in touch with FishingRod. She’s doing well! :D

]]> By: Steve http://billcammack.com/2008/12/05/why-women-have-to-be-attractive-and-men-dont/#comment-48329 Steve Thu, 01 Dec 2011 14:32:58 +0000 http://billcammack.com/?p=2610#comment-48329 I'm going to state this for Ann's benefit because you're not due for your quarterly, irate, declaration. The purpose of this part of Bill's blog is to shed some light on the the sexual shenanigans they seem to get ensared in over and over again. E.g. I met this dude... we had sex... he doesn't call... what did I do wrong...I met this dude... he has a gf... he says he really likes me... we had sex... he doesn't call... I met this dude... we had sex... he says I'm the only one... we had sex... he may still be hooking up with his "ex"(es)... [the next answer here should be "I stop returning his calls and move on with my life" but it's always something else] etc. ETC. ETC. And. So. On. The shit does not change. Don't blame it on our society because occasionally you get women from other cultures posting the same stuff. Don't blame the guy for being a scorpion and getting stung when we all know that's what they do. And don't bother getting all judgmental and saying it's all wrong and men need to do this or that because we have ZERO incentive to do anything differently if getting laid is our top priority. I guess that's what it comes down to. All of these stories come from women who encountered men who are willing to do anything to get laid. Now a dude who's looking to get some AND have some fine company for an evening or longer is a whole 'nutha story. You won't hear about him here. You won't see posts saying, "I met some awesome dude and he stuck around and we had babies." Well, maybe FishingRod but that was a while back. ;) I’m going to state this for Ann’s benefit because you’re not due for your quarterly, irate, declaration. The purpose of this part of Bill’s blog is to shed some light on the the sexual shenanigans they seem to get ensared in over and over again. E.g. I met this dude… we had sex… he doesn’t call… what did I do wrong…I met this dude… he has a gf… he says he really likes me… we had sex… he doesn’t call… I met this dude… we had sex… he says I’m the only one… we had sex… he may still be hooking up with his “ex”(es)… [the next answer here should be "I stop returning his calls and move on with my life" but it's always something else] etc. ETC. ETC. And. So. On. The shit does not change. Don’t blame it on our society because occasionally you get women from other cultures posting the same stuff. Don’t blame the guy for being a scorpion and getting stung when we all know that’s what they do. And don’t bother getting all judgmental and saying it’s all wrong and men need to do this or that because we have ZERO incentive to do anything differently if getting laid is our top priority. I guess that’s what it comes down to. All of these stories come from women who encountered men who are willing to do anything to get laid. Now a dude who’s looking to get some AND have some fine company for an evening or longer is a whole ‘nutha story. You won’t hear about him here. You won’t see posts saying, “I met some awesome dude and he stuck around and we had babies.” Well, maybe FishingRod but that was a while back. ;)

]]> By: Bill Cammack http://billcammack.com/2008/12/05/why-women-have-to-be-attractive-and-men-dont/#comment-48313 Bill Cammack Thu, 01 Dec 2011 09:08:41 +0000 http://billcammack.com/?p=2610#comment-48313 Agreed, Steve. :) Ann's attempt at a snarky reply highlights why women keep going out like suckers over and over, instead of opening their eyes and considering the possibilities in their love lives. Dismissing concepts as "Written by a 19 year old" indicates that she believes that older men don't think the exact same way, so anyone she meets that's, let's say, 30, she'll get blindsided because she's not expecting him to think the way he actually does. Look at Hugh Hefner. Dude was born in *1926*, and how many busted girlfriends does he have? o_O *ZERO*.. How many girlfriends does he have? o_O As many as he wants! :D .. When is he going to grow out of this? hehe When is he going to choose women differently?.. When is he going to have a flock of women around him that look bad but are intelligent and nice people?.. *NEVER*, because it ain't that type-a party! >:D So, While I agree with the basics of her comment, her mindset prevents her from seeing the entire range of possibilities because she doesn't want to believe that "a man" as opposed to "a boy" would select a woman to kick it with because she has a nice ass, instead of because she's accomplished as a businessperson or has a college degree. Agreed, Steve. :)

Ann’s attempt at a snarky reply highlights why women keep going out like suckers over and over, instead of opening their eyes and considering the possibilities in their love lives.

Dismissing concepts as “Written by a 19 year old” indicates that she believes that older men don’t think the exact same way, so anyone she meets that’s, let’s say, 30, she’ll get blindsided because she’s not expecting him to think the way he actually does.

Look at Hugh Hefner. Dude was born in *1926*, and how many busted girlfriends does he have? o_O *ZERO*.. How many girlfriends does he have? o_O As many as he wants! :D .. When is he going to grow out of this? hehe When is he going to choose women differently?.. When is he going to have a flock of women around him that look bad but are intelligent and nice people?.. *NEVER*, because it ain’t that type-a party! >:D

So, While I agree with the basics of her comment, her mindset prevents her from seeing the entire range of possibilities because she doesn’t want to believe that “a man” as opposed to “a boy” would select a woman to kick it with because she has a nice ass, instead of because she’s accomplished as a businessperson or has a college degree.

]]> By: steve http://billcammack.com/2008/12/05/why-women-have-to-be-attractive-and-men-dont/#comment-48159 steve Mon, 28 Nov 2011 06:48:58 +0000 http://billcammack.com/?p=2610#comment-48159 This is exactly the kind of thinking that gets women in trouble. The disbelief that men could possibly appreciate attraction differently. Men appreciate the outer layer first, foremost, and sometimes exclusively. Like, you look, and BANG! Women, with enough exposure, seem to be able to generate an attraction out of thin air after some amount of yakkity yak from the dude. Even if he's an ugly duckling. I don't understand that but I've seen enough examples of this to believe it. I think it was New Yorker Magazine a few months ago that published results of an informal study stating the general consensus is a guy only had to be like a 6 in the looks department in order to get a woman that was a 10. That's starting to make sense. For women being a sexy dude is some kind of collection of a number of traits and some wishful thinking. Men, we start at the outside... and there's another layer? LOL Seriously though, provided the guy's at loose ends, if you're hot you could be a whole bagful of crazy but he'd still think you were incredibly hot which would also be interpereted as DTF. Otr could be persuaded to be DTF - the male equivalent wishful thinking. :) This is exactly the kind of thinking that gets women in trouble. The disbelief that men could possibly appreciate attraction differently. Men appreciate the outer layer first, foremost, and sometimes exclusively. Like, you look, and BANG! Women, with enough exposure, seem to be able to generate an attraction out of thin air after some amount of yakkity yak from the dude. Even if he’s an ugly duckling. I don’t understand that but I’ve seen enough examples of this to believe it. I think it was New Yorker Magazine a few months ago that published results of an informal study stating the general consensus is a guy only had to be like a 6 in the looks department in order to get a woman that was a 10. That’s starting to make sense. For women being a sexy dude is some kind of collection of a number of traits and some wishful thinking. Men, we start at the outside… and there’s another layer? LOL
Seriously though, provided the guy’s at loose ends, if you’re hot you could be a whole bagful of crazy but he’d still think you were incredibly hot which would also be interpereted as DTF. Otr could be persuaded to be DTF – the male equivalent wishful thinking. :)

]]> By: ann http://billcammack.com/2008/12/05/why-women-have-to-be-attractive-and-men-dont/#comment-48151 ann Mon, 28 Nov 2011 00:38:32 +0000 http://billcammack.com/?p=2610#comment-48151 Well these articles are kind of written by a 19 year old who feels too sure of himself. There's actually more to life than looks. When I was younger, the guys i dated had to be good looking, not because i was a modelizer but because if i go out with someone whos questionable in the eyes of my friends or even my family, i get taunted about it. I dated a guy who i enjoyed going out with and nobody would give up asking me WTF happened to me or did the guy give me a love potion. That said i really regret the times i passed up going out with someone who i found interesting because of what people would say. I was young back then, and stupid, but i was never fresh. Actually these posts make people feel bad about themselves, why women have to be attractive, men dont, like its some contest. Women and men both have to be presentable, no snot hanging out, blood stained shirts, etc. Attraction/beauty depends also who is looking. When a man reads this article, does he go confidently out in the night, not caring if he gets rejected? I dont think so. I have actually tried to read your other articles hoping to find some kind of sense, that would make it helpful for people, or insightful, but alas. Well these articles are kind of written by a 19 year old who feels too sure of himself. There’s actually more to life than looks.
When I was younger, the guys i dated had to be good looking, not because i was a modelizer but because if i go out with someone whos questionable in the eyes of my friends or even my family, i get taunted about it. I dated a guy who i enjoyed going out with and nobody would give up asking me WTF happened to me or did the guy give me a love potion.
That said i really regret the times i passed up going out with someone who i found interesting because of what people would say. I was young back then, and stupid, but i was never fresh.
Actually these posts make people feel bad about themselves, why women have to be attractive, men dont, like its some contest. Women and men both have to be presentable, no snot hanging out, blood stained shirts, etc. Attraction/beauty depends also who is looking. When a man reads this article, does he go confidently out in the night, not caring if he gets rejected?
I dont think so. I have actually tried to read your other articles hoping to find some kind of sense, that would make it helpful for people, or insightful, but alas.

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