Comments on: Why You Got Dumped After Sex

By: Kate

Kate — Fri, 30 Dec 2011 18:51:42 +0000

Hi Bill, my situation is kinda different. The man is married and he is my Doctor. I’m wondering if the reason for not calling after sex is different for married men?
This is my story. I had several consultations already with this doctor. Then one time, there was a caress , then an embrace. That was the start. Let’s just say the next consultations already had passionate kisses and other intimate moments (no sex, only bj). Then came the time he would meet me outside after work and we would make out, etc. But still no sex. Then there was the night when we decided to finally do it. Funny thing is, it didn’t quite go as smoothly as, I think, we both imagined it would. He could not get it in! I was either too tight or he is just too big coz it really hurt. Sorry if I’m too graphic but it’s related to my question.
Do you think he did not call me afterwards because a) he is embarrassed, b) disappointed, c) guilty, d) done with me? What do you think? My ego is a bit bruised but I’m not really that hurt since I never expected anything out of our situation. I’m really just curious about what goes on in the minds of men in these different situations. Thanks much!

By: Bill Cammack

Bill Cammack — Fri, 25 Nov 2011 22:25:08 +0000

lol, No.. I’m not saying that YOU would want to be that type of chick for a dude. I’m saying that that’s the reason why she played along with whatever line he told you, because she’s going to hook up with him either way, so it doesn’t matter what YOU believe about their relationship.

By: Bill Cammack

Bill Cammack — Fri, 25 Nov 2011 17:30:39 +0000

lolol I’m just stating facts, Say! :) haha I’m sure he wanted that AZZZ!! hehehe :D

By: Say

Say — Fri, 25 Nov 2011 16:08:43 +0000

oh, really? so if I could just learn to STFU I’d get REWARDED with the PRIVLEDGE of getting to stay around a loser/walking STD for a LONGER period of time instead of having to get excommunicated?? What a concept! Where do I sign?? hahaha, shit, EXCOMMUNICATE MY ASS.

By: Say

Say — Fri, 25 Nov 2011 16:00:29 +0000

Let’s forget about the dude referenced in this situation (because HE AIN’T SHIT~LOL) and speak in general terms…put me up on game, I’ve gained a ridiculous amount of knowledge from reading this blog…On one hand you say (over and over) “it doesn’t matter how fast you give it up, and all that waiting bs is just bs, as long as you create value, and they establish value etc.” On the other hand you say once he hit it, “why would he waste time taking her somewhere instead of hittin it.”
This is kind of confusing for me…What if you want to sleep with him, you’re ready to sleep with him, but you also might want more out of it? You can’t just tell him you want more, because he’s going to say whatever is necessary to get what he wants. Of course I’ve been schooled to make him wait from a young age, and that always worked in the past. I always turned a situation into whatever I wanted it to be…Literally…I realize that’s not always the case, but can you explain the conflicting ideas here?