Comments on: Dilution of Experience http://billcammack.com/2009/03/07/dilution-of-experience/ Thu, 24 May 2012 05:50:55 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Bill Cammack http://billcammack.com/2009/03/07/dilution-of-experience/#comment-22025 Bill Cammack Thu, 09 Apr 2009 13:44:44 +0000 http://billcammack.com/?p=4147#comment-22025 haha Thanks, man! Looking forward to your fashion blog! :D Cheers! :D haha Thanks, man! Looking forward to your fashion blog! :D

Cheers! :D

]]> By: Justin C. http://billcammack.com/2009/03/07/dilution-of-experience/#comment-22024 Justin C. Thu, 09 Apr 2009 13:36:17 +0000 http://billcammack.com/?p=4147#comment-22024 Bill, I just saw the Mr. Big spoof. Killer dude. Your mug totally goes along with Eric Martin's voice. Bill, I just saw the Mr. Big spoof. Killer dude. Your mug totally goes along with Eric Martin’s voice.

]]> By: Bill Cammack http://billcammack.com/2009/03/07/dilution-of-experience/#comment-21109 Bill Cammack Sat, 07 Mar 2009 19:07:58 +0000 http://billcammack.com/?p=4147#comment-21109 100% Right, Steve. That's what holds people back from authentic expression. They don't want to take that chance that their interest won't be reciprocated. Especially here in NYC, there's a high-percentage chance of that happening. Unfortunately, the "dating game" is connected to the "relationship game". In a lot of cases, people don't "date to date". What they're really doing is auditioning people to be in a relationship with them. See, but meanwhile, everyone's holding their cards close to the vest. If the chick loves to eat Steak & Eggs @ brunch, she'll order a salad. If the guy likes to check out chick's asses when he's not on a date, he struggles to *NOT* do that in front of her. Since people are busy hiding their actual ways of being, they're not showing the aspects that MIGHT have gotten them that second date. "Oh... You like Steak & Eggs too? I know this great place where..." She missed out on that because she ordered that salad. A friend of mine asked me one time why I'm so nice to the ladies. Um... Basically... Why SHOULDN'T I be? Should I only be friendly towards chicks that are friendly to me first? Who's supposed to start that cycle? Instead, I just do what I want to do and they get down with the program or they don't. Is it disappointing if she doesn't reciprocate? Absolutely. It's COMPLETELY worth the trade-off for the times that they DO return the interest or friendliness or affection or whatever I happened to express to them. It's just that there are so many women running around hiding their interest in guys while they try to figure out how to get some kind of leverage and/or control over him that I'm pretty sure they don't know how they look, compared to women who just want to enjoy themselves, enjoy your company and have a good time. And... No.. I won't be describing my evening in print :) , which is why I'm Page 01 for <a href="http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=dating+internet+famous&btnG=Google+Search&aq=f&oq=" rel="nofollow">dating internet famous</a>. Capisce? ;) 100% Right, Steve.

That’s what holds people back from authentic expression. They don’t want to take that chance that their interest won’t be reciprocated. Especially here in NYC, there’s a high-percentage chance of that happening.

Unfortunately, the “dating game” is connected to the “relationship game”. In a lot of cases, people don’t “date to date”. What they’re really doing is auditioning people to be in a relationship with them.

See, but meanwhile, everyone’s holding their cards close to the vest. If the chick loves to eat Steak & Eggs @ brunch, she’ll order a salad. If the guy likes to check out chick’s asses when he’s not on a date, he struggles to *NOT* do that in front of her. Since people are busy hiding their actual ways of being, they’re not showing the aspects that MIGHT have gotten them that second date. “Oh… You like Steak & Eggs too? I know this great place where…” She missed out on that because she ordered that salad.

A friend of mine asked me one time why I’m so nice to the ladies. Um… Basically… Why SHOULDN’T I be? Should I only be friendly towards chicks that are friendly to me first? Who’s supposed to start that cycle? Instead, I just do what I want to do and they get down with the program or they don’t.

Is it disappointing if she doesn’t reciprocate? Absolutely. It’s COMPLETELY worth the trade-off for the times that they DO return the interest or friendliness or affection or whatever I happened to express to them.

It’s just that there are so many women running around hiding their interest in guys while they try to figure out how to get some kind of leverage and/or control over him that I’m pretty sure they don’t know how they look, compared to women who just want to enjoy themselves, enjoy your company and have a good time.

And… No.. I won’t be describing my evening in print :) , which is why I’m Page 01 for dating internet famous. Capisce? ;)

]]> By: Steve http://billcammack.com/2009/03/07/dilution-of-experience/#comment-21106 Steve Sat, 07 Mar 2009 18:45:06 +0000 http://billcammack.com/?p=4147#comment-21106 CAN'T. STOP. LAUGHING. "QUALITY", "Smoothed out". I'm guessing that's as close as you'll ever get to describing your evening in print! :-D On to <i> serious</i> matters... OK, I agree with this post but I gotta tell ya, when you're being all authentic, digging the chick, and [you think] you're both having a good time nothing's worse than the cruel, cruel, sting of finding out that she's not really into you. I guess the analogy is putting your best foot forward and having someone stomp all over it. CAN’T. STOP. LAUGHING.
“QUALITY”, “Smoothed out”. I’m guessing that’s as close as you’ll ever get to describing your evening in print! :-D

On to serious matters…

OK, I agree with this post but I gotta tell ya, when you’re being all authentic, digging the chick, and [you think] you’re both having a good time nothing’s worse than the cruel, cruel, sting of finding out that she’s not really into you. I guess the analogy is putting your best foot forward and having someone stomp all over it.

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