(hopefully, some of the young ladies will listen to and learn from your example, instead of thinking I’m just clowning and not talking about REAL THINGS that happen to REAL PEOPLE!)

Third of all, “He thinks she wants to be friends?”… After she NEVER came around until his boy told her that he thought she was hot? See… This is where y’all fall for the okey-doke. :D What kind of “friends” was he going to be with her? Were they going to play shuffleboard together? Monopoly, maybe? Nope. She got the word that she might be able to get some and she started showing up. SHE knew it, and HE knew it. This is what I mean by guys seemingly “telling the truth”, except they’re not TELLING THE TRUTH. There is no “He thinks she wants to be friends”.

On top of that, at the number exchange part, he should have DEFINITELY said he was involved with another chick, but I didn’t see him telling her that in your entire story.

See, at least, if he had told you he had told her, he could have acted like she snuck up on him and planted one on his lips. The way this reads, he was playing it “single & available”. That’s the major problem here, not that he eventually made out with her. The making out only occurred because he swept you under the rug from the giddyap.

But, it’s like I said. Dudes are going to get away with as much as they can get away with. What are the odds that a COWORKER of his didn’t know he had a girlfriend or couldn’t have found out in a split second. While his boy was busy putting his business in the streets about what he wanted to do to her, he could have just as easily said that his boy was dating you.

That’s neither here nor there, because the dude HIMSELF is the one that had the agreement with you but was still feeling her enough to want to make out with her and then tell you about it later like as if he had gotten victimized, so… SEEYA! :D

Then one night when they’re out having drinks she talks to him, says she’s married but he thinks she wants to be friends so sure, lets exchange numbers. Then she kisses him and tells him she wants to cheat on her husband. He goes no further, but then after acting weird to me for like 4 days finally gets all drunk and tells me.

I pondered it… and pondered some more… then after a few months (try 6.. yeah, I’m slow to realize things sometimes, ha) I decide it’s bullshit and yep, DONE. Cuz, dude… I’ve never been in a situation where I got kissed but didn’t WANT to be kissed… you have to be sending some pretty good signals and sitting PRE-TTY close to just GET KISSED.

I should have known myself better and ended it right there, but you learn new shit every day right?