Comments on: Stimulus & Response / “The Agenda”

By: Bill Cammack

Bill Cammack — Thu, 28 May 2009 18:35:24 +0000

She has a point, Steve. Depending on where you’re standing and what you look like, you might be completely SHORT when it comes to dating.

It’s like how you can be as good an Asian actor as you wanna be, but you sill won’t be getting any roles on American television or in films… other than those specifically written as “The Asian In The Movie”.

Thank God I never got stuck in the sticks, or I would have been married AGES AGO! :D

By: Tina

Tina — Wed, 27 May 2009 22:01:19 +0000

Seriously, NO. I live in Cottonwood Arizona. White men here do not date black women and Black men here are few and far between. This is ARIZONA.

By: Bill Cammack

Bill Cammack — Wed, 27 May 2009 10:37:42 +0000

Interesting. Well, I'm glad nothing negative happened to you. Can't say that sounds like "a good time", haha. I discussed lying about height in Itâ€™s All In The Game (Online Dating). Nobody cares about telling you the truth, unless the truth's going to get them laid faster. That's an interesting tactic... Pictures of his family? He might have been better off bringing along the new Al B Sure album. :/ Yes. For some odd reason... There's a *NEW* Al B Sure album! hahahaha :D

By: Bill Cammack

Bill Cammack — Wed, 27 May 2009 10:31:36 +0000

I don’t know how I missed this, haha.

I actually find what you’re saying to be not only feasible but typical. It’s much easier to move a female negatively than it is to move her positively. For instance, I can tell a gal she looks good, and she’ll shy away from the statement or say something to the contrary or have a mild, subdued reaction to what I said.. kind of as if she doesn’t believe the compliment I’m giving her.

Meanwhile, if I tell her she looks fat or out of shape, she gets all upset about it and FULLY believes what I said and will just about go berserk defending herself against accusations of looking poorly.. or, at least, vigorously telling me what her excuses are for her current state of disrepair.

This is one of the reasons guys have to be so aggressive with chicks in the first place. It’s tough to gain ground on them and EASY to lose ground. You have to avoid the negative while finding the positive needles in the haystacks. This is why so many relationships are completely disingenuous, because the guy’s only telling the girl what he wants her to hear in order for her to feel like being who he wants her to be.

So… If she’s out of shape, but you’re still willing to have sex with her, say she looks fine and you get what you want. You’re doing HER a disservice by not prompting her to get in the gym, but since your goal wasn’t her health, but rather your pleasure, everything’s everything. :D

By: Tina

Tina — Wed, 27 May 2009 01:40:24 +0000

Here we go with a followup: guy flew in on may 24 at 6pm, he was a dud, lied about height and pic on internet seemed as if it was 5-7 years ago. Dinner was good I picked the restaurant he got the tab , took him and dropped him back off at his hotel. (no I did not get out and go in). He brought pic albums of his family for me to see. No did not take him to my home.
Picked him up next morning for breakfast and he was back to plane by way of a shuttle by 3pm of 25th headed back to Ca. oh my Goodness! lol

that was a lot of moving and shaking going on by him
I had a good dinner and breakfast. jeeze