Comments on: How to *NOT* be a creep http://billcammack.com/2009/05/05/how-to-not-be-a-creep/ Tue, 31 Jan 2012 14:09:09 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Sexual Harassment & Inappropriate, Sexually-Suggestive Behavior | Bill Cammack http://billcammack.com/2009/05/05/how-to-not-be-a-creep/#comment-49272 Sexual Harassment & Inappropriate, Sexually-Suggestive Behavior | Bill Cammack Sat, 31 Dec 2011 10:52:44 +0000 http://billcammack.com/?p=4821#comment-49272 [...] If they like you, you’re being sociable. If they don’t like you, you’re being a creep. [...] [...] If they like you, you’re being sociable. If they don’t like you, you’re being a creep. [...]

]]> By: Bill Cammack http://billcammack.com/2009/05/05/how-to-not-be-a-creep/#comment-27657 Bill Cammack Tue, 06 Apr 2010 22:08:43 +0000 http://billcammack.com/?p=4821#comment-27657 Hey Charlene! :D *waves* Actually, yes.. I'm specifically talking about a club/bar environment. I'm also talking about someone looking for a quick bang, because... that's all guys are trying to do. :D The slowness of the "bang" is always the female's fault.. Well.. Not the "slowness" so much as the length of the delay before getting to the Nitty-Gritty. I suppose the actual speed is determined by whomever's on top.. Anywayyyyyy... Yes, I was exaggerating with that line, but it's really all in the inflection/delivery. I guarantee you I could get a rap to a chick I've never seen before in life by telling her “the rain in spain falls mainly on the plain”. This is because I've gotten raps to chicks without telling them anything at all, so I'm fully aware that it doesn't matter what you say, so long as it doesn't put her in fear for her life or well-being. Having said that, the smart move, were one to kick it to a Charlene-type, would be to hover about, eavesdropping on her conversation until the necessary & probably effective dialogue became apparent. I definitely advocate having intelligent things to say to women, but in the worst-case scenario "The Rain In Spain" is better than not kickin' it at all! ;) Hey Charlene! :D *waves*

Actually, yes.. I’m specifically talking about a club/bar environment. I’m also talking about someone looking for a quick bang, because… that’s all guys are trying to do. :D The slowness of the “bang” is always the female’s fault.. Well.. Not the “slowness” so much as the length of the delay before getting to the Nitty-Gritty. I suppose the actual speed is determined by whomever’s on top.. Anywayyyyyy…

Yes, I was exaggerating with that line, but it’s really all in the inflection/delivery. I guarantee you I could get a rap to a chick I’ve never seen before in life by telling her “the rain in spain falls mainly on the plain”. This is because I’ve gotten raps to chicks without telling them anything at all, so I’m fully aware that it doesn’t matter what you say, so long as it doesn’t put her in fear for her life or well-being.

Having said that, the smart move, were one to kick it to a Charlene-type, would be to hover about, eavesdropping on her conversation until the necessary & probably effective dialogue became apparent. I definitely advocate having intelligent things to say to women, but in the worst-case scenario “The Rain In Spain” is better than not kickin’ it at all! ;)

]]> By: Charlene Jaszewski http://billcammack.com/2009/05/05/how-to-not-be-a-creep/#comment-27655 Charlene Jaszewski Tue, 06 Apr 2010 21:58:59 +0000 http://billcammack.com/?p=4821#comment-27655 I assume these situations are only describing girls/guys in a club looking for a quick bang. I was about to comment "if a guy i thought was cute said "the rain in spain falls mainly on the plain" without any sort of context to me I'd think he was batshit crazy. or drunk. But then again I like intelligent conversation. and am not looking for a quick bang. ;) I assume these situations are only describing girls/guys in a club looking for a quick bang.
I was about to comment “if a guy i thought was cute said “the rain in spain falls mainly on the plain” without any sort of context to me I’d think he was batshit crazy. or drunk. But then again I like intelligent conversation. and am not looking for a quick bang. ;)

]]> By: Joe http://billcammack.com/2009/05/05/how-to-not-be-a-creep/#comment-25747 Joe Thu, 26 Nov 2009 08:00:33 +0000 http://billcammack.com/?p=4821#comment-25747 awww.. i just like did the total opposite of all these things except the touching one! Bill, do you have any advice on hwo to like dig out of this hole!?!? awww.. i just like did the total opposite of all these things except the touching one!

Bill, do you have any advice on hwo to like dig out of this hole!?!?

]]> By: Bill Cammack http://billcammack.com/2009/05/05/how-to-not-be-a-creep/#comment-22710 Bill Cammack Wed, 06 May 2009 11:45:40 +0000 http://billcammack.com/?p=4821#comment-22710 Hey Annie :) It's really not obvious. I can guess that since guys want to do so much more to you than that, ASAP, touching you seems like "not a big deal". Meanwhile, they're doing more to drive you away from them than to pull you towards them and make you feel attracted to them. I think it's also partially emulation. They see other guys get away with stuff and think they can do it too, because they don't realize that the guys that did it were already liked by the gals, so their advances were received positively. Obviously, that doesn't work for everybody. It's also an environmental issue. If all the guys that are trying to get girls are more aggressive than you are, you never see the trickle-down, so you have to get in the game somehow. Sometimes, touching is a last-ditch-effort to get attention by guys who otherwise wouldn't have pulled any chicks at all. Hey Annie :)

It’s really not obvious. I can guess that since guys want to do so much more to you than that, ASAP, touching you seems like “not a big deal”. Meanwhile, they’re doing more to drive you away from them than to pull you towards them and make you feel attracted to them.

I think it’s also partially emulation. They see other guys get away with stuff and think they can do it too, because they don’t realize that the guys that did it were already liked by the gals, so their advances were received positively. Obviously, that doesn’t work for everybody.

It’s also an environmental issue. If all the guys that are trying to get girls are more aggressive than you are, you never see the trickle-down, so you have to get in the game somehow. Sometimes, touching is a last-ditch-effort to get attention by guys who otherwise wouldn’t have pulled any chicks at all.

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