Comments on: Nothing In Common With Your SO? http://billcammack.com/2009/08/07/nothing-in-common-with-your-so/ Tue, 31 Jan 2012 14:09:09 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Bill Cammack http://billcammack.com/2009/08/07/nothing-in-common-with-your-so/#comment-24671 Bill Cammack Fri, 21 Aug 2009 22:13:42 +0000 http://billcammack.com/?p=6238#comment-24671 Good points. I always find it funny how people go after each other like mercenaries and then want to act like they're friends with each other just because they were having sex with each other. Like you mention.. If you take the sex part out of a relationship, what do you actually have left? In some people's cases, absolutely nothing. In other cases, there's mutual admiration or actual friendship or caring that lasts regardless of whether they're messing or not. In general, people don't have to have ANYTHING in common with each other to date. They just have to like what the other person's offering and roll with it. Good points. I always find it funny how people go after each other like mercenaries and then want to act like they’re friends with each other just because they were having sex with each other.

Like you mention.. If you take the sex part out of a relationship, what do you actually have left? In some people’s cases, absolutely nothing. In other cases, there’s mutual admiration or actual friendship or caring that lasts regardless of whether they’re messing or not.

In general, people don’t have to have ANYTHING in common with each other to date. They just have to like what the other person’s offering and roll with it.

]]> By: Frank http://billcammack.com/2009/08/07/nothing-in-common-with-your-so/#comment-24670 Frank Fri, 21 Aug 2009 19:30:56 +0000 http://billcammack.com/?p=6238#comment-24670 Damn, I have been waiting to see if anyone (cough*cough*Alexis*hack*cough) would actually comment on this as I am very interested in his/her opinion. Without beating this leg less and life less horse as has been done in several other postings... We all experience that moment when the person next to us seems to be not so compatible at that moment. Difference is if this is a REAL relationship, those feelings will subside as you re-integrate past enjoyable experiences into your relationship. We sometimes will do 100 different things in the first 125 days and then forget that its OK to repeat some of them. Having a good time and being in sync with someone does not necessarily come with an expiration date. Thats what happens when two people take the time to get to know each other and discover the little nuances that make everyone an individual. On the other hand if we were busy gettin' "buzy" during the first few months and kept hooking up because of the newness, the excitement, and the good sex... Well if you need the social acceptance of being in a relationship, you wake up one day telling the whole world that your Friend With Benefits is actually your bf/gf/SO. Other than he likes it when you wear that little school girl outfit, what do you know about him?? Except for good sex on 100 of them 125 days, what can you fall back on (other than his sword) that is mutually entertaining? Before asking or complaining about the posibility that you and your SO dont have much in common, we need to sit back and determine the legitimacy of your relationship. If publicly he is your SO but privately you KNOW he is just a glorified FWB... Let him go do his thing, you go do yours and meet back here in 3 hours for some mo' of that back breaking sex that y'all do have in common! Damn, I have been waiting to see if anyone (cough*cough*Alexis*hack*cough) would actually comment on this as I am very interested in his/her opinion. Without beating this leg less and life less horse as has been done in several other postings…
We all experience that moment when the person next to us seems to be not so compatible at that moment. Difference is if this is a REAL relationship, those feelings will subside as you re-integrate past enjoyable experiences into your relationship. We sometimes will do 100 different things in the first 125 days and then forget that its OK to repeat some of them. Having a good time and being in sync with someone does not necessarily come with an expiration date. Thats what happens when two people take the time to get to know each other and discover the little nuances that make everyone an individual.
On the other hand if we were busy gettin’ “buzy” during the first few months and kept hooking up because of the newness, the excitement, and the good sex…
Well if you need the social acceptance of being in a relationship, you wake up one day telling the whole world that your Friend With Benefits is actually your bf/gf/SO. Other than he likes it when you wear that little school girl outfit, what do you know about him?? Except for good sex on 100 of them 125 days, what can you fall back on (other than his sword) that is mutually entertaining?
Before asking or complaining about the posibility that you and your SO dont have much in common, we need to sit back and determine the legitimacy of your relationship. If publicly he is your SO but privately you KNOW he is just a glorified FWB…
Let him go do his thing, you go do yours and meet back here in 3 hours for some mo’ of that back breaking sex that y’all do have in common!

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