Comments on: Ladies: How To Get To Know Your Boyfriend http://billcammack.com/2009/09/09/ladies-how-to-get-to-know-your-boyfriend/ Tue, 31 Jan 2012 14:09:09 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Bill Cammack http://billcammack.com/2009/09/09/ladies-how-to-get-to-know-your-boyfriend/#comment-25070 Bill Cammack Mon, 21 Sep 2009 12:57:15 +0000 http://billcammack.com/?p=6515#comment-25070 That's exactly the point. A lot of people are ACTING in their relationships. Alcohol tends to remove people's ability and/or desire to do that. This is especially true for people that aren't used to drinking. It's tough for them to function as they normally would. This is why you see so many chicks on The Maury Show saying they got drunk and gave it up.. or saying they got drunk and don't remember giving it up.. or saying they got drunk but they DIDN'T give it up, but the guy they supposedly didn't have sex with turns out to be the father of their kid. Similarly, guys tend to fall off their rockers and say and do some apparently out-of-character stuff when they're drunk, because they forget to keep up appearances. It's not always drastic stuff either. Sometimes, it's really simple stuff like holding doors for people, saying "Thank You" or being gracious to the help (waiters, bartenders, cabbies...). It could be that look he gives his girl of "Jeez... You're REALLY stupid, aren't you? At least you're sexy." that he consciously stops himself from showing her when he's sober. As far as homeboys, some dudes forget to play it off that they like to check out their friend's girlfriend's ass... Basically, anything that someone told you was true while they were sober is up for reevaluation when they're drunk. The less drunk YOU are and the more drunk THEY are, the easier it is to get to the bottom of things. :) That’s exactly the point. A lot of people are ACTING in their relationships. Alcohol tends to remove people’s ability and/or desire to do that. This is especially true for people that aren’t used to drinking. It’s tough for them to function as they normally would.

This is why you see so many chicks on The Maury Show saying they got drunk and gave it up.. or saying they got drunk and don’t remember giving it up.. or saying they got drunk but they DIDN’T give it up, but the guy they supposedly didn’t have sex with turns out to be the father of their kid.

Similarly, guys tend to fall off their rockers and say and do some apparently out-of-character stuff when they’re drunk, because they forget to keep up appearances. It’s not always drastic stuff either. Sometimes, it’s really simple stuff like holding doors for people, saying “Thank You” or being gracious to the help (waiters, bartenders, cabbies…). It could be that look he gives his girl of “Jeez… You’re REALLY stupid, aren’t you? At least you’re sexy.” that he consciously stops himself from showing her when he’s sober.

As far as homeboys, some dudes forget to play it off that they like to check out their friend’s girlfriend’s ass… Basically, anything that someone told you was true while they were sober is up for reevaluation when they’re drunk. The less drunk YOU are and the more drunk THEY are, the easier it is to get to the bottom of things. :)

]]> By: C Jay http://billcammack.com/2009/09/09/ladies-how-to-get-to-know-your-boyfriend/#comment-25069 C Jay Mon, 21 Sep 2009 05:32:23 +0000 http://billcammack.com/?p=6515#comment-25069 I know we already went over this but I just seen my boy just fell for the get him drunk method and I must admit it works gooood 3 shots and he was already in brech of the bro code. This is why I don't drink to many things start rolling out. Calll me shady but like jack sparrow said a dishonest man you can always trust to be dishonest I know we already went over this but I just seen my boy just fell for the get him drunk method and I must admit it works gooood 3 shots and he was already in brech of the bro code.
This is why I don’t drink to many things start rolling out.
Calll me shady but like jack sparrow said a dishonest man you can always trust to be dishonest

]]> By: Bill Cammack http://billcammack.com/2009/09/09/ladies-how-to-get-to-know-your-boyfriend/#comment-25033 Bill Cammack Fri, 11 Sep 2009 18:11:43 +0000 http://billcammack.com/?p=6515#comment-25033 hahaha NOW you're cooking with GAS! ;) Absolutely agreed. "Mr. Right" will recognize her willingness to TRY TO LEARN and help her as much as he can and will be proud to have her gaming by his side, regardless of how good she actually is. "Mr. Wrong" will take that opportunity to ridicule her in front of his boys. Thanks for the follow-up. Cheers! :D hahaha NOW you’re cooking with GAS! ;)

Absolutely agreed. “Mr. Right” will recognize her willingness to TRY TO LEARN and help her as much as he can and will be proud to have her gaming by his side, regardless of how good she actually is. “Mr. Wrong” will take that opportunity to ridicule her in front of his boys.

Thanks for the follow-up. Cheers! :D

]]> By: C jay http://billcammack.com/2009/09/09/ladies-how-to-get-to-know-your-boyfriend/#comment-25032 C jay Fri, 11 Sep 2009 18:04:01 +0000 http://billcammack.com/?p=6515#comment-25032 I must say bill this one had me laughing for a good 5 min. One thing to add to the video game scenario which i thinks works pretty well. Try to do it at a time when he has other guy friends over because you don't even have really play just pick up the controller upside down two things can happen. 1) He will start giving you all kinds of reasons you cant play with the boys right now, its serous, mans game, we need to win etc. or.. 2) he will actually take the time to say something like oh that upside down baby let me show you how to hold it the right way.. this means he likes you. if he goes on to teach you how to play then he really likes you so STICK with this guy. I must say bill this one had me laughing for a good 5 min. One thing to add to the video game scenario which i thinks works pretty well. Try to do it at a time when he has other guy friends over because you don’t even have really play just pick up the controller upside down two things can happen.

1) He will start giving you all kinds of reasons you cant play with the boys right now, its serous, mans game, we need to win etc.

or.. 2) he will actually take the time to say something like oh that upside down baby let me show you how to hold it the right way.. this means he likes you. if he goes on to teach you how to play then he really likes you so STICK with this guy.

]]> By: Bill Cammack http://billcammack.com/2009/09/09/ladies-how-to-get-to-know-your-boyfriend/#comment-25030 Bill Cammack Thu, 10 Sep 2009 17:23:30 +0000 http://billcammack.com/?p=6515#comment-25030 Hey TJ. Thanks for the comments. :) I agree with you that lying about being pregnant is a horrible thing to do to anyone. It's also horrible when guys lie and say that they're sterile so they can get the chick to lie down without protection and then she comes up pregnant. Both situations happen every single day. C'est La Vie. Also, in paragraph #2, I clearly stated that these are <strong>underhanded</strong> methods. The best way to get to know someone is to talk to them honestly. Barring the ability to do that, people have to get tricky. I disagree that guys should be caught out there when "the person they love" tells them that she's pregnant. If you're keeping your condom game tight, you know whether you spilled in her or you didn't. If she comes up pregnant, you shouldn't have to WONDER when that happened. You should know already, because you should be making sure that all your sperm are all present and accounted for after every time you hit it. If you're *not* using condoms, then you should assume you're getting a chick pregnant EVERY. SINGLE. TIME. you have sex with her, so it STILL shouldn't be a surprise. If she told you that she was on the pill or had her tubes tied or whatever and then she comes up pregnant, well... you just Got GOT. Hey TJ. Thanks for the comments. :)

I agree with you that lying about being pregnant is a horrible thing to do to anyone. It’s also horrible when guys lie and say that they’re sterile so they can get the chick to lie down without protection and then she comes up pregnant. Both situations happen every single day. C’est La Vie.

Also, in paragraph #2, I clearly stated that these are underhanded methods. The best way to get to know someone is to talk to them honestly. Barring the ability to do that, people have to get tricky.

I disagree that guys should be caught out there when “the person they love” tells them that she’s pregnant. If you’re keeping your condom game tight, you know whether you spilled in her or you didn’t. If she comes up pregnant, you shouldn’t have to WONDER when that happened. You should know already, because you should be making sure that all your sperm are all present and accounted for after every time you hit it.

If you’re *not* using condoms, then you should assume you’re getting a chick pregnant EVERY. SINGLE. TIME. you have sex with her, so it STILL shouldn’t be a surprise. If she told you that she was on the pill or had her tubes tied or whatever and then she comes up pregnant, well… you just Got GOT.

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