Comments on: Frenemies or Frienemies http://billcammack.com/2009/09/14/frenemies-or-frienemies/ Mon, 15 Mar 2010 12:59:43 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Lola http://billcammack.com/2009/09/14/frenemies-or-frienemies/#comment-25053 Lola Mon, 14 Sep 2009 21:23:27 +0000 http://billcammack.com/?p=6537#comment-25053 Welcome to the wonderful world of female friendships. There is a natural (deadly) mix of competition and grudge-holding between women that lends itself to this problem. Of course, not all female friendships are like this, but I'm sure if you took a tally of all the frienemy relationships in any given area, most of them would be between women. Welcome to the wonderful world of female friendships. There is a natural (deadly) mix of competition and grudge-holding between women that lends itself to this problem. Of course, not all female friendships are like this, but I’m sure if you took a tally of all the frienemy relationships in any given area, most of them would be between women.

]]> By: C Jay http://billcammack.com/2009/09/14/frenemies-or-frienemies/#comment-25052 C Jay Mon, 14 Sep 2009 20:14:18 +0000 http://billcammack.com/?p=6537#comment-25052 Frenemies are a waste of time as far as i am concerned there are only 3 categories of people i associate with 1) That's my homeboy we go waaaay back. 2) Yeah i seen him around.... he's cool/ He's aight 3) i dont really like that dude but he with johnny and me and johnny are pretty tight so its all good. other than that it's pointless because it just takes to much effort to keep up. Frenemies are a waste of time as far as i am concerned there are only 3 categories of people i associate with

1) That’s my homeboy we go waaaay back.
2) Yeah i seen him around…. he’s cool/ He’s aight
3) i dont really like that dude but he with johnny and me and johnny are pretty tight so its all good.

other than that it’s pointless because it just takes to much effort to keep up.

]]> By: Frank http://billcammack.com/2009/09/14/frenemies-or-frienemies/#comment-25047 Frank Mon, 14 Sep 2009 17:15:18 +0000 http://billcammack.com/?p=6537#comment-25047 Fuck em-ies... I have way more than I can count and part of it is that I have accepted who I am, wher I am, and how I am so much so that your opinion doesnt matter. I will listen. I will take a look at myself if you point is valid but for the most part. I DONT CARE!!!! I have also lost the "support" of those who though that I didnt have there back. Case in point: A "guy" i have known since we were in the 6th grade got into an argument with some people at a local dive we frequent (and yes this happened recently!) Long story short, publicly I had his back. Privately, I had to remind him that he was wrong. He took this to mean that I was to be trusted because I "didnt have his" the way i should. Again, in public... that was my manz and whatever happened would have been a group effort. Next time out I see him acting dismissive of me, not that I cared. What got me pissy was that we made plans via email and FB... He made a point of responding to everyone (after he took me off the chain) that he wouldnt feel comfortable going with "certain" people. My mature reaction... I responded that I was going AND showed up anyway. LOL He pretended all was fine and I just kept it moving after the initial "dap" of the hands. Reports coming back are that he got more annoyed and made it a point to let everyone know that i was ignoring him. Had to tell people to stop the sideline reporting because I dont care. next time he goes or not but point was made. My world goes 'round whether u on board or not! Fuck em-ies… I have way more than I can count and part of it is that I have accepted who I am, wher I am, and how I am so much so that your opinion doesnt matter. I will listen. I will take a look at myself if you point is valid but for the most part. I DONT CARE!!!!
I have also lost the “support” of those who though that I didnt have there back. Case in point: A “guy” i have known since we were in the 6th grade got into an argument with some people at a local dive we frequent (and yes this happened recently!) Long story short, publicly I had his back. Privately, I had to remind him that he was wrong. He took this to mean that I was to be trusted because I “didnt have his” the way i should. Again, in public… that was my manz and whatever happened would have been a group effort. Next time out I see him acting dismissive of me, not that I cared. What got me pissy was that we made plans via email and FB… He made a point of responding to everyone (after he took me off the chain) that he wouldnt feel comfortable going with “certain” people. My mature reaction… I responded that I was going AND showed up anyway. LOL He pretended all was fine and I just kept it moving after the initial “dap” of the hands.

Reports coming back are that he got more annoyed and made it a point to let everyone know that i was ignoring him. Had to tell people to stop the sideline reporting because I dont care. next time he goes or not but point was made. My world goes ’round whether u on board or not!

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