There’s lots of information that slips all the time from people. If you’re in person with a chick and bring up a particular sexual act/action, she’ll either be neutral to what you said, seem fascinated by it or her nose will crinkle up and she’ll look like she smells something bad, hahaha. Depending on her reaction, you know whether she’s down for that particular item or not. :)

It’s a lot better than telling her “Hey! I saw something in a movie the other night and wanted to try it out on you! :D”

Unfortunately very few people deceive or tell the truth all the time so it probably won’t ever work in real life.

“Stick to third-party information from trusted sources. ;)” – is pretty sound. I also learned a while back that a lot of folks will let slip some interesting info on the 1st date. Only a high level game master can keep his game running for hours on end. The rank and file are amateurs. So have fun, suppress your intuition, and listen closely. I think you’ll at least catch the guys that are unaware they’re running their mouths at the behest of the other master… If that makes any sense. ;-)

The thing is that you CAN’T tell, because the guys that want an LTR act like they want one and the guys that don’t want one know that SAYING they want one is the fastest way to get to the nitty-gritty.

Therefore, the only way you can actually tell is to ask mutual acquaintances that you trust to tell you the truth. For instance, I have 323 mutual Facebook friends with this gal I know. If she wanted to date me (which she doesn’t), out of those 323 people, I would guess that I’ve hung out with at least 90 of them IRL.

That’s a whole lot of people that can tell her if I’m discourteous to women or I speak crudely in front of kids or I drop-kick cats across the street like a field goal.

IMO, that’s the only way to get a good idea of what a person’s daily demeanor is. Talk to people that hang out with them on a regular basis. If they were in a relationship with one chick for two years straight and then all broken up about it when it was over, that’s going to be what people say. If they kick it with whatever chick happens to turn them on at that particular moment in time.. THAT’S going to be what people say. People can use this information to make educated decisions.

As far as taking a guy’s word for what he wants, that’s a trap. Women THINK that “women’s intuition” always saves the day. It doesn’t. We already know you think you know who we are and we’ve evolved past your being able to detect and defeat our techniques. The more you think you know us, the more you blind yourself and the easier you are to fool.

Stick to third-party information from trusted sources. ;)

I would like to hear your theories on why some guys prefer women with zero muscle tone.

“These are two entirely different sets of guys who will come at you the exact same way but have different goals.”

Now, the 64.000$ question: How do I tell one set of guys from the other set if their approach is exactly the same?