You’re absolutely right that women’s dating leverage as far as sex is absolutely gone, haha Look at Tiger Woods. He was hooking up with more chicks than you could knock down with one bowling ball! :D

I actually find that phenomenon fascinating, where women think they get to control whether a guy gets laid or not. All they actually control is whether THEY give it up or not. The next gal’s ready to prove her worth and knock that girlfriend/wife out of position for the win.

Thanks for the props on the website. :) That’s actually a good question, why I wanted to start a dating blog particularly like this…

I started out doing what I called “Don’t Try This At Home”, which was supposed to be humorous dating advice that didn’t necessarily do you any good, which was why you shouldn’t try it at home.

What happened along the way was that I have a lot of female readers and they have a lot of the same questions. I got tired of making up funny ish and decided to try to do a public service by attempting to enlighten women so they can WAKE THE **** UP and see how easy it is for us guys to game them. It’s honestly too easy. They always fall for the same damned tricks. :D

On top of that, there are so many stupid things that guys do and stupid things that gals do that never get addressed on dating blogs. The advice is always “Buy her flowers”, “Say you’re wrong”, “Always agree with her”, “Take out the trash”, “Take her out on Valentine’s Day, blah blah blah blah blah.. Meanwhile, nothing ever gets solved, because both sides are keeping what they REALLY think to themselves.

I’m watching that MTV show “Teen Mom” and this one dude obviously doesn’t give a flying **** that his girlfriend got pregnant and now he has a son. I mean it’s OOOOBVIOUS. You just look at his face and he’s like “How did I get in this situation? :(“, “This sucks. :(“, “I don’t want to babysit this kid. :(” and then they drag the show all the way through the season and he has another argument with his girl and FINALLY blurts out that he doesn’t care.

This is the type of thing I’m talking about. Why should it be obvious to some dude watching television and NOT obvious to the girl that was with this guy, laid down with him and had a kid by him that he just doesn’t care? Granted, she’s a teen, but it doesn’t get any better as women get older. I just got really sick of seeing all these situations where women were obviously taking shorts and decided to post about them. I’ve been doing this for years already, and sometimes I get really tired of being redundant but then something new happens like some sportscaster screws some busted intern or production assistant and women are all like “:O HOW COULD HE DO THAT TO HIS WIFE?”.. Meanwhile, the fellaz are like “Is that a girl? He couldn’t get a better chick than THAT?” :D

Most of us see the world in general and dating in particular from such a different perspective that it’s frustrating and annoying to run into YET ANOTHER clueless female because she’s still operating from the brainwashing she received as a small child that there’s someone for everyone and that when a guy hooks up with her, it’s because he likes her as a person and cares about what she thinks and says as opposed to he felt like having sex with her, so he made that happen.

So, Yeah.. I try to mix it up between humor and rants, and I’m extremely happy for the women that have gotten something out of my blog that allowed them to see REALITY in their own relationships and create a stronger dating stance for themselves with a better grasp of the situation and higher self-esteem, but for the most part, the song remains the same.

All I know is that for the last few years, I’ve tried to do my part as far as humor and education. That’s really all I can ask from myself.

Cheers! :)

That’s probably because your man got tired of the superficiality of chicks wanting to hook up with him because he was visually attractive and decided he needed more than that if he was going to be in a serious relationship.

Better-looking gals just have more opportunities to demonstrate personality to guys. It’s the not-so-fly chicks that have a lot more going for them under the hood that always get the callbacks and repeated invites to go out and chill.

Fine, empty-headed girls are a “taste”.. You have to be in the mood for that. Up until you actually get your hands on some chicks, these girls SEEM like the best ones. The cream of the crop! :D Once you detect their crabby attitudes and lack of use for anything other than getting you into the club without waiting on line, you see they’re all style and no substance.

That’s fine for the hit-n-run, but nobody wants to think about being in a protracted relationship with someone that they don’t enjoy spending time with.

As far as “I would never”, hahahaha I hear you man. The thing is that chicks think they know what they want… until they run into a guy that has what they didn’t know they wanted.