Comments on: Google Your Date? http://billcammack.com/2009/11/19/google-your-date/ Tue, 31 Jan 2012 14:09:09 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Bill Cammack http://billcammack.com/2009/11/19/google-your-date/#comment-25969 Bill Cammack Sat, 12 Dec 2009 11:46:29 +0000 http://billcammack.com/?p=6985#comment-25969 um... FUMBLE??? :D HAHAHAHAHAHA I said GOOGLE your date.... *NOT* "Google your date and TELL HER THAT YOU GOOGLED HER!" *slapping forehead* That's totally ridiculous, because a chick's going to become paranoid that anything she does, you're going to be hip to it because you're e-stalking her. It also puts you in the unenviable position of "Checkin' For Her", which means you're already sweating her, which means she's got it like that, which means that you're not a challenge, which means she's not going to be as interested in you as she would have been if you had made her feel like she has to work for what she gets. I saw a friend of mine IRL today and complimented her on a picture that she posted to Facebook, but that's because I'm not kickin' it to her and it doesn't matter to me whether she thinks I think she looks good or not. In general, however, you want to GET the information and then ACT AS IF you don't have it! ;) um… FUMBLE??? :D HAHAHAHAHAHA

I said GOOGLE your date…. *NOT* “Google your date and TELL HER THAT YOU GOOGLED HER!” *slapping forehead*

That’s totally ridiculous, because a chick’s going to become paranoid that anything she does, you’re going to be hip to it because you’re e-stalking her.

It also puts you in the unenviable position of “Checkin’ For Her”, which means you’re already sweating her, which means she’s got it like that, which means that you’re not a challenge, which means she’s not going to be as interested in you as she would have been if you had made her feel like she has to work for what she gets.

I saw a friend of mine IRL today and complimented her on a picture that she posted to Facebook, but that’s because I’m not kickin’ it to her and it doesn’t matter to me whether she thinks I think she looks good or not.

In general, however, you want to GET the information and then ACT AS IF you don’t have it! ;)

]]> By: Steve http://billcammack.com/2009/11/19/google-your-date/#comment-25951 Steve Fri, 11 Dec 2009 17:49:52 +0000 http://billcammack.com/?p=6985#comment-25951 Ha! I did this with a woman I dated recently who I had no connections with prior. We get a lot of that out here in the sticks. :) Found out via Goog that she'd actually published a book, dug it up on Amazon then checked out the publisher to see if it was just a vanity press. Also found out via her Amazon Author's Blog page that she used to live in my county. I can't say for sure but she seemed a little off put by me knowing so much about what she'd been up to. Not that I laid it out like a dossier or something. "I saw on your Amazon page that you used to live in..." like that. Could be that sometimes creative types aren't expecting other folks to notice what they've done. In any case I had ammo for several conversations. :) Ha!
I did this with a woman I dated recently who I had no connections with prior. We get a lot of that out here in the sticks. :)
Found out via Goog that she’d actually published a book, dug it up on Amazon then checked out the publisher to see if it was just a vanity press. Also found out via her Amazon Author’s Blog page that she used to live in my county.

I can’t say for sure but she seemed a little off put by me knowing so much about what she’d been up to. Not that I laid it out like a dossier or something. “I saw on your Amazon page that you used to live in…” like that. Could be that sometimes creative types aren’t expecting other folks to notice what they’ve done.
In any case I had ammo for several conversations. :)

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