Comments on: Dating vs. Hanging Out http://billcammack.com/2009/11/22/dating-vs-hanging-out/ Thu, 18 Mar 2010 10:04:37 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Bill Cammack http://billcammack.com/2009/11/22/dating-vs-hanging-out/#comment-25965 Bill Cammack Sat, 12 Dec 2009 10:58:17 +0000 http://billcammack.com/?p=7008#comment-25965 You know?... I hadn't thought about it before, but this is absolutely true. Nobody cares about what a guy does with a chick he already has in Deep Check. If he's already married to her or they've been together for a while, it's like *yawn*. As a matter of fact, if a guy started a story with "Hey man... I took my wife skiing and...", I'd have to stop him and change the subject, haha nobody cares after you already have it. We just care HOW. YOU. GOT. IT! :D You know?… I hadn’t thought about it before, but this is absolutely true.

Nobody cares about what a guy does with a chick he already has in Deep Check. If he’s already married to her or they’ve been together for a while, it’s like *yawn*.

As a matter of fact, if a guy started a story with “Hey man… I took my wife skiing and…”, I’d have to stop him and change the subject, haha nobody cares after you already have it. We just care HOW. YOU. GOT. IT! :D

]]> By: C Jay http://billcammack.com/2009/11/22/dating-vs-hanging-out/#comment-25907 C Jay Tue, 08 Dec 2009 19:51:24 +0000 http://billcammack.com/?p=7008#comment-25907 Bill is absolutely right dudes care way more about how you got to the point of having sex with a chick what happens after that is entertaining but we forget it like 10 min after hearing it. but everything that came before is very important it's the same reason that quarterbacks watch film the whole week before they play, humans are creatures of habit as much as we like to think that we are unique individuals we all follow certain patterns which are influenced by the people around us and other environmental factors. Females do it to and they go into much more details than guys do, but they will never admit it. Bill is absolutely right dudes care way more about how you got to the point of having sex with a chick what happens after that is entertaining but we forget it like 10 min after hearing it. but everything that came before is very important it’s the same reason that quarterbacks watch film the whole week before they play, humans are creatures of habit as much as we like to think that we are unique individuals we all follow certain patterns which are influenced by the people around us and other environmental factors. Females do it to and they go into much more details than guys do, but they will never admit it.

]]> By: Bill Cammack http://billcammack.com/2009/11/22/dating-vs-hanging-out/#comment-25896 Bill Cammack Tue, 08 Dec 2009 03:20:01 +0000 http://billcammack.com/?p=7008#comment-25896 Yeah, I had to test the code because I received it back in either HS or JHS and never actually made up my own mind about it. I was just following the rules. What I learned for myself was that my own Free Will overrides the code, except my desire is for my friends to have relationships that they like. I ended up creating my own code, which wasn't one beholding to other dudes, but being true to what I wanted which was to be a friend to my friends and facilitate their happiness. Yeah, I had to test the code because I received it back in either HS or JHS and never actually made up my own mind about it. I was just following the rules.

What I learned for myself was that my own Free Will overrides the code, except my desire is for my friends to have relationships that they like. I ended up creating my own code, which wasn’t one beholding to other dudes, but being true to what I wanted which was to be a friend to my friends and facilitate their happiness.

]]> By: Bill Cammack http://billcammack.com/2009/11/22/dating-vs-hanging-out/#comment-25895 Bill Cammack Tue, 08 Dec 2009 03:16:27 +0000 http://billcammack.com/?p=7008#comment-25895 In my case, it's actually more than that. We always approached chicks as a sport. If you were playing baseball, you'd say "That pitcher always nods to the left before throwing a fastball down the middle" so your boy has a better chance of knocking one out of the park when it's his turn. That's where the think tank comes from. You put enough similar experiences together and you can figure out the pattern. The pattern works generally on women and then you have to make slight adjustments based on her personality. This is how education's accelerated. The way to deal with someone like our friend Fishingrod is to either put the physical moves on her until she changes her mind about having to be in love before having sex OR making her believe that you're in love with her, setting her up to fall in love with you and give it up to you for her own reasons. It's elementary. A cakewalk. The only issue is the time and energy it would take to make that happen. Basic pattern, tweaked for personality. Same thing for chicks from different religions, lesbians, whatever. Doesn't matter. They're still women. There are always moves that can be made. If I don't report back to the fellaz, they don't learn, in which case they get stuck on unnecessary obstacles and they fail to have experiences with chicks that they can report back to me for MY education. Everyone contributes....... I mean... BACK IN THE DAY!!! :D In my case, it’s actually more than that. We always approached chicks as a sport. If you were playing baseball, you’d say “That pitcher always nods to the left before throwing a fastball down the middle” so your boy has a better chance of knocking one out of the park when it’s his turn.

That’s where the think tank comes from. You put enough similar experiences together and you can figure out the pattern. The pattern works generally on women and then you have to make slight adjustments based on her personality. This is how education’s accelerated.

The way to deal with someone like our friend Fishingrod is to either put the physical moves on her until she changes her mind about having to be in love before having sex OR making her believe that you’re in love with her, setting her up to fall in love with you and give it up to you for her own reasons. It’s elementary. A cakewalk. The only issue is the time and energy it would take to make that happen. Basic pattern, tweaked for personality.

Same thing for chicks from different religions, lesbians, whatever. Doesn’t matter. They’re still women. There are always moves that can be made. If I don’t report back to the fellaz, they don’t learn, in which case they get stuck on unnecessary obstacles and they fail to have experiences with chicks that they can report back to me for MY education. Everyone contributes…….

I mean… BACK IN THE DAY!!! :D

]]> By: Bill Cammack http://billcammack.com/2009/11/22/dating-vs-hanging-out/#comment-25894 Bill Cammack Tue, 08 Dec 2009 03:07:14 +0000 http://billcammack.com/?p=7008#comment-25894 lolol :) Irrelevant article. Kids are mostly mistakes. That's what condoms are for, so we can feign procreation without having it actually happen. Guys who are TRYING to have kids should approach the game entirely differently. They should interview every girl they can get their hands on EVERY DAY to find one that really wants to troop it with him and start a family. Get her, Lock her down, Retire. I see why you feel that way about the guys that approached you. I'm sure part of it was that you were oblivious, since women tend to project their lack of sexual interest before feeling "in love" onto guys and they think we work the same way. However, I'm also sure that once a guy talked to you and found out what you were into, he figured you were "too tough of a nut to crack" and bailed if he wasn't interested in going the LTR route or at least faking it until you gave it up! :D lolol :) Irrelevant article. Kids are mostly mistakes.

That’s what condoms are for, so we can feign procreation without having it actually happen.

Guys who are TRYING to have kids should approach the game entirely differently. They should interview every girl they can get their hands on EVERY DAY to find one that really wants to troop it with him and start a family. Get her, Lock her down, Retire.

I see why you feel that way about the guys that approached you. I’m sure part of it was that you were oblivious, since women tend to project their lack of sexual interest before feeling “in love” onto guys and they think we work the same way. However, I’m also sure that once a guy talked to you and found out what you were into, he figured you were “too tough of a nut to crack” and bailed if he wasn’t interested in going the LTR route or at least faking it until you gave it up! :D

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