Comments on: Enabling Cheating In Relationships (Enough Is Enough) http://billcammack.com/2009/11/25/enabling-cheating-in-relationships-enough/ Tue, 31 Jan 2012 14:09:09 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Guilt By Association / Social Media Connections | Bill Cammack http://billcammack.com/2009/11/25/enabling-cheating-in-relationships-enough/#comment-26166 Guilt By Association / Social Media Connections | Bill Cammack Wed, 30 Dec 2009 21:14:41 +0000 http://billcammack.com/?p=7049#comment-26166 [...] feels that only people who agree with Tiger’s behavior spend time together. It could be that she feels he enabled Tiger to get raps behind his wife’s back. It could be that she feels he was receiving [...] [...] feels that only people who agree with Tiger’s behavior spend time together. It could be that she feels he enabled Tiger to get raps behind his wife’s back. It could be that she feels he was receiving [...]

]]> By: Bill Cammack http://billcammack.com/2009/11/25/enabling-cheating-in-relationships-enough/#comment-25798 Bill Cammack Tue, 01 Dec 2009 20:05:56 +0000 http://billcammack.com/?p=7049#comment-25798 Yeah man. You have to have a hierarchy. It's like a pyramid. Each chick knows less and less about the situation, but at the top is the chick that knows the most because you can't afford for HER to find out something she wasn't aware of and bounce on (leave) you. That saved my ass many a time when I used to date multiple chicks instead of just keepin' it freelance. The baseline was "You're not the only chick I'm dating" and then depending on how important the chick was, she was informed how deep the rabbit hole actually went. :D Yeah man. You have to have a hierarchy. It’s like a pyramid. Each chick knows less and less about the situation, but at the top is the chick that knows the most because you can’t afford for HER to find out something she wasn’t aware of and bounce on (leave) you.

That saved my ass many a time when I used to date multiple chicks instead of just keepin’ it freelance. The baseline was “You’re not the only chick I’m dating” and then depending on how important the chick was, she was informed how deep the rabbit hole actually went. :D

]]> By: C Jay http://billcammack.com/2009/11/25/enabling-cheating-in-relationships-enough/#comment-25796 C Jay Tue, 01 Dec 2009 19:55:15 +0000 http://billcammack.com/?p=7049#comment-25796 Both of you bring up excellent points. When dating multiple people you have to somehow imply that you are not mutually exclusive with out directly implying you are seeing other people so if she does catch you "slippin" you were never mutually exclusive in the first place. Also if you are gonna "cheat" on your S.O it is very important!! that you tell the other chick from the get-go that she is the side chick. There is nothing worse that having to chicks mad @ you @ the same time. Both of you bring up excellent points. When dating multiple people you have to somehow imply that you are not mutually exclusive with out directly implying you are seeing other people so if she does catch you “slippin” you were never mutually exclusive in the first place. Also if you are gonna “cheat” on your S.O it is very important!! that you tell the other chick from the get-go that she is the side chick. There is nothing worse that having to chicks mad @ you @ the same time.

]]> By: Bill Cammack http://billcammack.com/2009/11/25/enabling-cheating-in-relationships-enough/#comment-25786 Bill Cammack Tue, 01 Dec 2009 05:21:22 +0000 http://billcammack.com/?p=7049#comment-25786 hahaha I'm going to have to look into this Tiger Woods thing TO-DAY, because you're the second person to have brought it up in some kind of domestic dispute light! :D When I heard about it, it was just that he crashed his car and his woman had to break the window to get him out hahaha this might be interesting! :D You bring up an important... A VERY IMPORTANT point. A lot of these same guys with no skillz to "cheat" are the same guys that use gimmicks to get laid in the first place. The main gimmick to get laid is to tell a chick that you're exclusive with her. Since they fall for it every single time (cougcoughMCNAIRcoughcough), when they find out they're just one of the chicks that you're kickin' it with, Houston, we might have a problem! :D Gimmicks-in, Gimmicks-out. If you use gimmicks to get chicks, those same gimmicks are going to be the Spy's Demise. It's because it's not natural to you. You can't maintain the facade. Even though it's actually boring and redundant, I love watching that show "Cheaters" because they catch dudes cheating in the wide ******* open! :D These dudes have GIRLFRIENDS or FIANCEES or whatever, live in some small-ass town with only three places to go, and *STILL* take their side-girl out to eat!!! ARE. YOU. *******. CRAZY???? :D What makes you think that if an entire television crew could sneak up on your ass holding hands and kissing some chick coming out of the only bar in town that you wouldn't have gotten caught ANYWAY if your girl had enlisted her friends to keep an eye on you? Most of the time, these guys get caught ing PARKING LOTS which means that you DROVE THERE WITH YOUR SIDE CHICK so that everyone in creation could see you. This is the mark of a dude that's out of his element. Hang it up. Like Frank said.. Either commit to your "girlfriend" FOR REAL or stop telling her she's the one and let her stay on the roster if she feels like being one of your chicks or let her bounce. It's better than getting the ole' "golf club to the window" trick or worse! haha BELEEDAT! :D hahaha I’m going to have to look into this Tiger Woods thing TO-DAY, because you’re the second person to have brought it up in some kind of domestic dispute light! :D When I heard about it, it was just that he crashed his car and his woman had to break the window to get him out hahaha this might be interesting! :D

You bring up an important… A VERY IMPORTANT point. A lot of these same guys with no skillz to “cheat” are the same guys that use gimmicks to get laid in the first place. The main gimmick to get laid is to tell a chick that you’re exclusive with her. Since they fall for it every single time (cougcoughMCNAIRcoughcough), when they find out they’re just one of the chicks that you’re kickin’ it with, Houston, we might have a problem! :D

Gimmicks-in, Gimmicks-out. If you use gimmicks to get chicks, those same gimmicks are going to be the Spy’s Demise. It’s because it’s not natural to you. You can’t maintain the facade.

Even though it’s actually boring and redundant, I love watching that show “Cheaters” because they catch dudes cheating in the wide ******* open! :D These dudes have GIRLFRIENDS or FIANCEES or whatever, live in some small-ass town with only three places to go, and *STILL* take their side-girl out to eat!!!

ARE. YOU. *******. CRAZY???? :D What makes you think that if an entire television crew could sneak up on your ass holding hands and kissing some chick coming out of the only bar in town that you wouldn’t have gotten caught ANYWAY if your girl had enlisted her friends to keep an eye on you? Most of the time, these guys get caught ing PARKING LOTS which means that you DROVE THERE WITH YOUR SIDE CHICK so that everyone in creation could see you.

This is the mark of a dude that’s out of his element. Hang it up. Like Frank said.. Either commit to your “girlfriend” FOR REAL or stop telling her she’s the one and let her stay on the roster if she feels like being one of your chicks or let her bounce.

It’s better than getting the ole’ “golf club to the window” trick or worse! haha BELEEDAT! :D

]]> By: Frank http://billcammack.com/2009/11/25/enabling-cheating-in-relationships-enough/#comment-25781 Frank Mon, 30 Nov 2009 20:03:42 +0000 http://billcammack.com/?p=7049#comment-25781 I dont think thats its so much as they are equally clueless as they are ill prepared. When a guy (and some of you lame ass girls too)has his "excuse"on speed dial, it keeps him from evolving and stepping his up. Not to mention most of the speed dial excuse-ers have the same problem solving scenerio on tap and never bother to adjust for actual situations. Thats why... If ya cant keep from getting caught you need to 1)stop letting them think they are the one. get a new gear in your game OR 2)STOP. settle your tired ass down. getting screamed at and having your rear window bashed out with a golf club (cougcoughTIGERWOODScoughcough) is not a cute look. :) I dont think thats its so much as they are equally clueless as they are ill prepared. When a guy (and some of you lame ass girls too)has his “excuse”on speed dial, it keeps him from evolving and stepping his up. Not to mention most of the speed dial excuse-ers have the same problem solving scenerio on tap and never bother to adjust for actual situations. Thats why…

If ya cant keep from getting caught you need to 1)stop letting them think they are the one. get a new gear in your game OR 2)STOP. settle your tired ass down. getting screamed at and having your rear window bashed out with a golf club (cougcoughTIGERWOODScoughcough) is not a cute look. :)

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