There’s a difference between telling a believable short-term lie and keeping it going for years and years, like

“Sure, that’s your kid! :D” :/

I *had* to figure it out. I just had to… See, I actually talk to and listen to women, as opposed to most guys that just nod and don’t pay any attention when they’re speaking.

At first, I chalked the behavior up to all of us being school-age, but then, when the thinking didn’t get any better among older women, I was like hmm.. what’s going on here? o_O

So for my own health, welfare, and sanity, I had to figure out what kind of mental system I was dealing with.

It’s SUUUUUUCH a relief not to be confused by what women do or say. :D

I understand why the confusion drives guys crazy. It doesn’t make sense how they got from A to B if you think about it in a logical, linear fashion… Once you’re able to mentally interject irrelevant emotional probabilities into the equation, it becomes obvious why she acted that way, and then it becomes obvious how to avoid those situations in the future. :D

if a chick THINKS you did something, and you can’t prove that you didn’t beyond a shadow of a doubt, you’re gonna be in the doghouse for quite a while!

Yep, it really sucks hehe. And they’ll never forget it ever, which sucks the more.

Sometimes it’s hard to know where to stand, either sides turns out wrong. But eventually I learned, that’s how women’s mind work, that’s how they think. If they’re at that status already (of believing their own lies), don’t hit it head on – or better yet if possible, forget about it and hope nothing will trigger that memory back.

Regardless, it’s amazing and fun to understand them women. I envy you because you can put those analysis and experiences into words – and boldly. ^_^

“The problem now there is that, most women doesn’t have control to get our of their own fabricated lies.”

That’s the point, JC. :) That’s what makes them better liars. They actually believe what they’re saying.

If you watch “Jersey Shore”, for instance, the girls will say “I’m not easy! :O” and they’ll call the girls that the guys bring home sluts and whores.

Next thing you know, those very same girls get drunk until they can’t stand up straight anymore and throw ass at guys they just met and attempt to hook up with them… The. Exact. Same. Behavior. that they low-rate other chicks for, but if you call THEM hoes, they’re going to protest and call you a hater, even though they can’t possibly explain to you the difference between THEIR actions and the other gals’ actions.

There IS no difference. If the girls they don’t know are whores, so are they. If they aren’t, then neither are the girls the guys bring home. It’s very simple. Very logical. Yet, there are so many women that live this double-standard that it’s entirely amazing.

In another Jersey Shore instance, Deena cockblocked Mike by stealing this girl from him, making out with her at the club, bringing her home and hooking up with her in Deena’s bed, with Vinny witnessing the entire thing, and then the next moring, she denies being a cockblocker, refuses to apologize for what she did, tells the girls that Vinny got her “Sloppy Seconds” that night, and accuses the guys of changing and acting differently towards her.

Deena wasn’t making that stuff up. She actually believed it, even though the videotape shows what she actually did, and it’s exactly what the guys HAD SAID she did.

Also, you’re right, haha if a chick THINKS you did something, and you can’t prove that you didn’t beyond a shadow of a doubt, you’re gonna be in the doghouse for quite a while! :D