Both of youse bring up some very interesting technical background information that’s definitely worth researching, the bottom line being Fishingrod’s statement “Getting someone who I had sex with out of my system is hard work and can be very confusing”.

This is one of the differences that causes the most problems between men and women when it comes to fidelity. It’s just not natural for guys and doesn’t make any sense. It’s tough to explain this to women, because the only thing to say is “The sex with the other chick didn’t mean anything to me, which sends you cascading down the rabbit hole because she assumes that sex in general doesn’t mean anything to you and sex with HER doesn’t mean anything to you, so you were better off just staying shut. :D

The fact of the matter is that it’s been proven time and time again COUGHtigerCOUGH that it “ain’t no thang” for a dude to spend his day ******* as many chicks as he can afford and then go home to his wife and kids and enjoy his life like a “regular” husband. To her, it doesn’t make any difference until she finds out. Until that time, her life was exactly the same as it always had been and she was none the wiser. He was keeping HER happy and keeping HIMSELF happy. It’s the American way! :D

This is why, in these particular cases, “Sex Rehab” is complete BULLSHIT. It’s not like these guys don’t know what they’re doing. It’s not like they are getting tricked into having sex with chicks. They like women. They like ******* women. They’re going to do it whether they’re married or not and if they get caught, they can either weasel their way out of it by paying some money and claiming to become religious OR they get dumped, divorced or whatever.

I’m especially going to look up Vasopressin because I think it might be an interesting blog post topic. If it has something to do with “rewards for long-lasting bonds”, I have that… Just not with ONE chick.

The main three women I spend time with now, I’ve known for one, two and three years, respectively. I have another chick I’ve been rollin’ with for 10 years by now and I’m still friends with all the exes I have current contact information for. I have lots of long-term bonds with women. That’s one of the reasons I don’t have any interest, desire or need to sell out to one chick because I’ve already got whatever it is she wants me to commit to her for.

It’s amazing how tough it is to explain some concepts to women because their lives are so completely different, but I’m having fun trying! :D