Comments on: Is Sex Expected On The Fourth Date? http://billcammack.com/2010/02/26/is-sex-expected-on-the-fourth-date/ Thu, 24 May 2012 05:50:55 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Bill Cammack http://billcammack.com/2010/02/26/is-sex-expected-on-the-fourth-date/#comment-52537 Bill Cammack Tue, 10 Apr 2012 14:31:02 +0000 http://billcammack.com/?p=7774#comment-52537 That's true, Nikola.. Giving it up won't get you anything.. Except *maybe* an invite to give it up again in the future. :) That’s true, Nikola.. Giving it up won’t get you anything.. Except *maybe* an invite to give it up again in the future. :)

]]> By: Nikola http://billcammack.com/2010/02/26/is-sex-expected-on-the-fourth-date/#comment-52524 Nikola Mon, 09 Apr 2012 23:23:38 +0000 http://billcammack.com/?p=7774#comment-52524 You would probably make him wait longer??? Why? So that you get another $200 dinner??!? I like this site because it confirms my belief: it doesn´t matter when you have sex with him! The sex itself won´t get you anything! And I like it when they want to impress me! :-)) But then again the chick under...it´s a free world...to each, its own! You would probably make him wait longer??? Why? So that you get another $200 dinner??!?

I like this site because it confirms my belief: it doesn´t matter when you have sex with him! The sex itself won´t get you anything! And I like it when they want to impress me! :-))

But then again the chick under…it´s a free world…to each, its own!

]]> By: Nikola http://billcammack.com/2010/02/26/is-sex-expected-on-the-fourth-date/#comment-52522 Nikola Mon, 09 Apr 2012 23:10:21 +0000 http://billcammack.com/?p=7774#comment-52522 Hi...hihihihi...loved the "2012 androgynous eunuch" part:-))) Maybe they are also "real men." I don`t like putting an etiquette on men...who`s real or not...I was just saying what I like! Anyway, thanks for the answer. Hi…hihihihi…loved the “2012 androgynous eunuch” part:-)))

Maybe they are also “real men.” I don`t like putting an etiquette on men…who`s real or not…I was just saying what I like!

Anyway, thanks for the answer.

]]> By: Bill Cammack http://billcammack.com/2010/02/26/is-sex-expected-on-the-fourth-date/#comment-52495 Bill Cammack Mon, 09 Apr 2012 06:17:59 +0000 http://billcammack.com/?p=7774#comment-52495 Hey, Gettingby :) “Learn the game, then play better than everyone else” hahaha THAT'S WHAT'S UP!!! >:D Yes.. Accepting gifts and money is as much of an art as paying women to spend time with you. Even if a chick offers to take me out for the evening, I'm going to try to split the check with her.. Unless she sneaks and asks for the bill while I'm in the bathroom! (inside "joke") You have to carefully monitor the money dynamic in relationships and hookups and make sure that you're playing into whatever your actual best interests are. Hey, Gettingby :)

“Learn the game, then play better than everyone else”

hahaha THAT’S WHAT’S UP!!! >:D

Yes.. Accepting gifts and money is as much of an art as paying women to spend time with you.

Even if a chick offers to take me out for the evening, I’m going to try to split the check with her.. Unless she sneaks and asks for the bill while I’m in the bathroom! (inside “joke”)

You have to carefully monitor the money dynamic in relationships and hookups and make sure that you’re playing into whatever your actual best interests are.

]]> By: Bill Cammack http://billcammack.com/2010/02/26/is-sex-expected-on-the-fourth-date/#comment-52494 Bill Cammack Mon, 09 Apr 2012 06:13:01 +0000 http://billcammack.com/?p=7774#comment-52494 Nikola, Thanks for the comment. :) That's very interesting, and might have to be a separate blog post about splitting checks. It's true that if you figure out spending money on a chick is the easiest way to get her to give it up, and you don't need the money anyway, you may as well spend it to get to the nitty-gritty faster.. So long as you don't mind her considering you a customer. OTOH, I think it needs to be contextual spending. Like, if I want to go to the movies with a broke chick, that means I'm going to be the one paying for it. If she actually has a job or some format of income (coming in, hehe), maybe I buy the tickets and she buys the popcorn, or I pay for the movies and she pays for the dinner/drinks. Then again, I don't "date", as in the courtship ritual, but I see what you're saying. Also the fact that a dude can blow money on you is going to make you feel more like he's on top of his game = you're more likely to give him some. I get that. This is one of the reasons guys should use their own style, whatever that is. If everybody plays the 2012 androgynous eunuch, there's nothing left for the women that are turned on by "real men". Nikola, Thanks for the comment. :)

That’s very interesting, and might have to be a separate blog post about splitting checks.

It’s true that if you figure out spending money on a chick is the easiest way to get her to give it up, and you don’t need the money anyway, you may as well spend it to get to the nitty-gritty faster.. So long as you don’t mind her considering you a customer.

OTOH, I think it needs to be contextual spending.

Like, if I want to go to the movies with a broke chick, that means I’m going to be the one paying for it.

If she actually has a job or some format of income (coming in, hehe), maybe I buy the tickets and she buys the popcorn, or I pay for the movies and she pays for the dinner/drinks.

Then again, I don’t “date”, as in the courtship ritual, but I see what you’re saying.

Also the fact that a dude can blow money on you is going to make you feel more like he’s on top of his game = you’re more likely to give him some. I get that.

This is one of the reasons guys should use their own style, whatever that is.

If everybody plays the 2012 androgynous eunuch, there’s nothing left for the women that are turned on by “real men”.

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