I’m watching Millionaire Matchmaker and Patti’s trying to hook this millionaire chick (MC) up with a date, right?
So she tells the MC to let the guy plan the date…
Not only does the MC not let dude plan ANYTHING, but she has a private jet waiting at the airport to take her, her date, AND SOME OTHER DUDE to Atlantic City for lunch or whatever.
Putting aside the fact that if she knew what she was doing, she wouldn’t need a matchmaker in the first place, :/ her plan was good and bad. It was a smart move to flaunt how rich she is, being that she’s supposed to be a millionaire. It was a stupid move to bring an extra dude on what’s supposed to be a ******* DATE between her and the dude Patti hooked up for her.
Here’s how it goes, ladies… If you need to know who’s supposed to go with you on a date, it’s the same roster that’s going to be involved when the sex jumps off. That means, a) no dudes, and b) only girls that are more attractive than you are.
Those are the *ONLY* people that are supposed to be on a date. You, The Dude, and Any Chicks You Bring Along To Spice Up The Action.
If you and your homegirls don’t get down like that, good. Then it should be just YOU and THE DUDE, like a REGULAR DATE!
If you don’t trust a guy enough to spend time with him in a public place without your cronies being there, you very well shouldn’t be dating that guy, should you?
If you need someone else to assess whether your date is worthwhile for you or not, a) you should be paying that person for their investigative services, and b) if you’re a Grown-Ass Woman, you shouldn’t need other people to make those decisions for you.
Follow The Rules
I almost had this happen to me one time. 🙂 I was chatting this chick up on the phone and heard her tell someone that was in the room with her that she was going to XYZ place and she asked him if he wanted to come with. He intelligently declined, having more common sense than she did. When we met up that day, I told her not to invite people to come along when I invite her somewhere. I told her that if she insisted on inviting extra people to go places with her to let me know so I could bail out and she could go do that activity with them instead of me. She got the picture and I didn’t have to deal with that nonsense ever again.
It’s also funny when women invite other women to come along on dates and then still expect the guy to pick up the tab. Nope. Either one or BOTH OF YOUSE are going to be dippin’ in your wallets when we finish, due to breach of contract… Assuming the guy hangs around for the so-called date at all when he sees you brought your entourage.
Unless, of course, you followed the rules and the gal(s) you brought are both hawter than you are and DTF, in which case, “Nice To Meet’cha! ;)”.
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