A reader told me yesterday that she felt a a post of mine was harsh.
In a way, I agreed with her.
In a way, I didn’t.
Unfortunately, in life, sometimes the facts of the matter are jarring, hard to hear, and/or unpleasant to consider. This doesn’t make any of these facts less true. What you feel about them doesn’t matter at all. It doesn’t change the situation.
This is how people trap themselves, trying to live into their dreams instead of recognizing what’s really happening and deciding to get with the program or bail out and look for something they think better suits their lives or lifestyles.
If I say I meet new women every week, that’s because it’s a fact, not because I’m trying to be harsh or because I’m trying to brag. If I say I go to parties where I know at least 80 people in the room, I’m not exaggerating, and if you had been at that party standing next to me, you would have seen how many people there that I have fantastic, fun, friendly & educational relationships with.
If I say that the way my life panned out severely diminishes women’s abilities to blackmail me into doing things I don’t feel like doing in order to hook up with them, just browsing the facts should make it clear that I’m telling the truth. You might not LIKE the facts, but that doesn’t have any effect whatsoever on reality.
I live in New York City, the capital of the
world universe. We have 24-hour McDonald’s here. That means that right now, at 4:23 am, I can go get food right this very second from McDonald’s. We also have a 24-hour Apple Store on 59th street and 5th avenue. If I say that I can buy hamburgers or computer software any-damned-time-I-want, you might not like that because you don’t have the same opportunities that I have, but how you feel doesn’t change ANY of the facts, EVAR. \o/
Hide In Plain Sight
Personally, what I feel is HARSHER than what I wrote is when people know they’re not a part of the game but they pretend to be in order to get what they want.
This is where women fall for the okey-doke lots of times, because for some odd reason, they just can’t grasp the concept that a dude lied to them about his intentions or feelings towards her. Then, they wonder what changed about their relationship and wonder what they did wrong when he hits it & quits it.
Sometimes, she actually did something wrong. Other times, he was just telling you whatever you needed to hear to give it up, and then once he got what he wanted, stringing you along became a waste of his time and he bounced.
So.. I think giving women false hope is way harsher than letting them know they’re going to have to be a hell of a woman to maintain your attention. I think acting like you’re a part of the commonly-brainwashed system is harsher than letting them know you’re not involved with their games and you’re willing to stand by while they play them with other dudes.
Are there women that have fantastic, loving, beautiful relationships with guys? Yep! 😀 I’m very happy for them and wish them the best. Are there also women that don’t know they’re being used? Yep. Are there also women who are TOLD. TO. THEIR. FACES. that a guy is using them, and they still refuse to face reality? Yep.
I think those last two situations are harsher than saying “Go ahead and bring your A-Game, but good luck to you, because better women than you have attempted to secure my exclusive attention and failed”.
The funny thing about all this is that I appear to be a renegade because I’m the only one that can afford to tell the truth. 😀 Women don’t want to believe what I talk about and men don’t want to publicly admit that I’m telling it like it is because it would impede their efforts to get laid. That can’t happen to me, because women actually like me. I had girls before I knew what to do with girls, and I thought I told you that we won’t stop. >:D
You can drop me off in a country where I can’t even verbally communicate with the inhabitants and I’ll achieve one or more girlfriends, immediately. I’m not concerned about alienating women that can read English and understand what I’m saying in my blog posts. In fact, I’ve met some of the most intelligent, attractive & worthwhile women that I’m currently in contact with today BECAUSE of my blog posts.
So if I write something that’s harsh, it’s not because I’m attempting to be a jerk, but because I see the game properly and you don’t. Or, maybe you DO see it and refuse to believe it or acknowledge it or adjust your game to roll with the big dogs and swim with the sharks.
Perception vs. Reality
Either way, real life is happening right now, whether you like it or not.
Somewhere out there, there’s a guy that loves his family and is doing his DAMNEDEST to show them the best life possible because he loves them completely.
Somewhere out there, there’s a guy that loves his family and has a bunch of girlfriends because monogamy wasn’t in his game plan and he knows he needs to pretend like it is so his wife doesn’t bounce.
Somewhere out there, there’s a guy that doesn’t think jack **** about the woman he’s with, but he lets her hang around with him because she’s rich or because she gives up the ass whenever he wants it.
Many miles away.. There’s a shadow on the door.. Of a cottage on the shore.. Of a dark, Scottish lake…..