Appreciating your girlfriend is one of the best things you can do to keep your relationship fresh, interesting, and exciting. 😀
All too often, we completely ignore or just plain fail to acknowledge “the little things” that our gals do for us that make our lives so much better.
Sure.. We make sure she “gets hers”, but other than that, what are we really doing for the special women in our lives? o_O
How about next time she cooks you that fantastic meal, which she also planned out and shopped for during her free time after she finished working all day, you pick up a sponge and gladly do the family dishes?
How about next time you pass that store, and see a pair of jeans on display that will make your girl look particularly fat-assed and delectable, you roll right in there and buy them for her?
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How about next time, instead of inviting her to come see Conan The Barbarian with you in the theater, you ask her which boring-ass chick flick you can suffer through for her sole benefit?
How about next time SHE wants to go out with her girlfriends, you don’t call the act of staying at home with your own biological child you had with her “babysitting”?
How about next time, instead of falling dead asleep after the fact, you take one for the team and force yourself to cuddle with her?
Yes.. I realize that you’re only dating her for sex and entertainment, but there’s so much more you can do to make her experience exciting and worthwhile in the meantime.
Turn your brain off. Think to yourself “If I were a chick, what would I want to do right now? o_O” and then go with the flow.
Go shopping with her at the mall. Just make sure you don’t end up on the bench with the Health-Tex-Wearing husbands whose wives have dressed them up as little kids to ensure that they never get sex from a female other than them ever again in life.
Take that walk with her through Central Park when you’d rather watch that football game that’s more important to you than she is right now.
Go antique-shopping with her when you don’t give a flying **** about old-ass furniture.
Take her out for that lavish Italian meal instead of taking her on dates to the gym so she can work out and stay in the type of shape you enjoy.
Spend the day with her at her Grandmother’s house with the rest of her family in attendence, playing it off like you’re not hooking up with her every hour that you’re physically awake…
Pretending that you’re not hooking up with your girlfriend, *NOT* pretending that you’re not hooking up with her Grandmother…
I mean.. If you *ARE* hooking up with her Grandmother, you want to play that off too, but, um….
Anyway… It’ll all be worth it. I guarantee you. The happier you make her, the happier she’ll make you.