By being a creep, what’s left for you is a creepy dating pool.
It doesn’t matter how many people are in the building if they all know that the wolf eats rabbits.
Nobody intentionally procreates with someone dumber than they are.
All I can tell you is that women are disinterested in sex with people they don’t feel like having sex with. Other than that, it’s off to the races.
How is your self-esteem supposed to improve when you do something you already knew you could do? o_O