Positive Reinforcement

Make sure you offer people positive reinforcement and not only negative feedback.

So yesterday, on this Facebook group, this dude accused me of having a bunch of negative stuff to say.

Of course, my first reaction was “This dude is buggin’, and doesn’t know what the **** he’s talking about.”

The vast majority of my interaction with people is positive, being that I don’t get kicks out of being negative towards people. I really don’t care about them that much that I would get a thrill from dissing them. Continue reading “Positive Reinforcement”

Feeling Emotional About Facts

If you can stop yourself from becoming emotional over other people’s lack of emotion about commonly-understood facts, you will live a way more authentic and realistic life.

One of the things I find funny (meaning laughable, not peculiar) about my interactions with people is that most of them haven’t been through like 1/6th the stuff I have on the dating scene, so they get caught off guard by my lack of reaction to things that they find stunning. Continue reading “Feeling Emotional About Facts”

Co-Signing Mistakes

Sometimes, people that you like screw something up in business or relationships.

When that happens, you really want to take them to the side and let them know what they did wrong so they can fix it and look like they came to the right conclusion on their own.

If they refuse to listen to you and fix it, or even worse, if they refuse to admit they made the mistake in the first place, you have two choices.. You either co-sign their mistake, or you make it clear to the rest of the people aware of the situation that you know it’s a mistake. Continue reading “Co-Signing Mistakes”

Intro: How To Create Your Own Job

The way things are going, it’s looking like you might need to create your own job instead of waiting for someone to create one for you.

This is easy to do, but it’s also easy to do WRONG, so let’s discuss a few topics that might help you do things the right way and become self-sufficient.

Introduction to Bill Cammack‘s upcoming ebook on freelancing:

How To Create Your Own Job

The way things are going, it’s looking like you might need to create your own job instead of waiting for someone to create one for you.

This is easy to do, but it’s also easy to do WRONG, so let’s discuss a few topics that might help you do things the right way and become self-sufficient. Continue reading “Intro: How To Create Your Own Job”