Sustainable Ingroup Formation

Positivity always wins because it’s based on creation and not reaction. The positive creator can make negative comments, but the negative commenter can’t create positive change.

Binary Society

Groups have to be formed based on positive concepts or else they’re doomed to fail.

This is because there are two types of people.. Content Creators and Readers. Continue reading “Sustainable Ingroup Formation”

The Rings Of Conversational Hades

Some people just can’t stay quiet long enough for you to tell them the information they’re supposed to be commenting on.

I know people whose brains work in a strange way where they love to… In fact, I think they CAN NOT HELP nitpicking your sentences because their worldview is more important to…. Because their worldview naturally overrides in their brain what you’re trying to tell them.

They just can’t listen and STFU until you get your entire point across.

This means that you either have to keep stopping your sentence to accommodate their worldview to their satisfaction, or you just ignore what they said and keep talking about what you wanted to tell them.

Keeping stopping is annoying and worthless and the constant interruptions are badgering and mental.

Ignoring them causes them to get mad that you’re ignoring them and keep asking you about the same nonsense until you don’t want to talk to them at all and don’t give a damn about offering them the education they would have gotten if they knew how to have a damned conversation. Continue reading “The Rings Of Conversational Hades”

Considering The Concept Of “Toxic Masculinity”

Whether masculinity is “toxic” or not does not depend on one’s innate strength of character, but rather the vector upon which it is applied.

Readers Charles & Kimbell recently pointed out the concept of “Toxic Masculinity” to me.

I had heard the term before, but didn’t bother to research it because I figured it was just another one of these dumb things people make up attempting to explain situations they don’t understand.

I was right. 😀

According to en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Toxic_masculinity:

The concept of toxic masculinity is used in the social sciences to describe traditional norms of behavior among men in contemporary American and European society that are associated with detrimental social and psychological effects. Such “toxic” masculine norms include dominance, devaluation of women, extreme self-reliance, and the suppression of emotions.

Conformity with certain traits viewed as traditionally male…

ok. 😀 We’re going to stop the definition right there.

This is the problem with the concept of Toxic Masculinity.

It only applies to people who are “conforming with certain traits viewed as traditionally male”.

What I mean by that is that if you have to act like a man, that means you aren’t one. o_O

Does that make sense?… If you have to act tough, that means you aren’t tough.

Dogs that bark a lot are often trying to scare you away because they don’t actually want to fight you.

Meanwhile, actual tough guys aren’t going to tell you what’s going to happen to you, you’re just going to get your block knocked off and get left there bleeding in the street.

So if you have to CONFORM with certain traits, that means you don’t naturally possess those traits and you are in fact an actor. Continue reading “Considering The Concept Of “Toxic Masculinity””

Alpha Status Is Absolute, Not Relative

Claiming top dog status amongst nobodies doesn’t make you somebody.

I’m watching this video the other day that was recorded by a bunch of Herbs.

A “Herb”, basically, is a nobody. A chump. A male but not a man. Not meaning a boy, which could still be a young man, but a male who just isn’t effective for anything useful so he’s generally disregarded whether he’s told so or not.

So I’m clear that there are a bunch of Herbs on the screen, and then one of them says “There are too many Alphas in this room! :D” and they all get happy and start smiling about themselves.

Meanwhile, I’m like what? o_O There are *ZERO* Alphas in that room. Continue reading “Alpha Status Is Absolute, Not Relative”

Privilege & Responsibility

What ethical responsibility do we have to consider problems that are not our own?

I love this story so much I’ve told it a thousand times 😀 but I was sitting at a bar in a restaurant in midtown Manhattan, NYC, USA, with my excellent homegirl, sipping drinks that cost a gazillion dollars, and explaining to her something about how I was trying to understand how it feels to be an assembly line worker whose only skill as far as earning potential was putting a door on a car.

Obviously I wasn’t trying at that very second! 😀 but I meant that mentally, philosophically, emotionally, I was attempting to access the same set of feelings I might have had in a circumstance like that.

I originally started thinking about this mainly from seeing the documentary Roger & Me:

Continue reading “Privilege & Responsibility”

Where Did Your Values Come From?

If you eat squirrels, I think you’re a primitive savage.

I hold the door for people. I hold the door for old people. I hold the door for young people.

… No, I’m not a doorman… 😀

I thank people for holding the door for me. I like to reward their generosity by offering them obvious appreciation.

For the sake of discussion, let’s call these “values”.

Where did I get these values? o_O Continue reading “Where Did Your Values Come From?”

Laboring Under The Illusion Of A Binary Society [Loser Society]

Unfortunately, this fraudulent concept has now been unveiled by Globalism, and people are currently losing their minds.

I was watching a documentary the other day that had been filmed in Germany or Poland or somewhere and the native dude tells the cameraman (according to the subtitles I was reading) “Look at those black guys over there.”

They were at a fish market or something and the next camera angle showed fish on display to be sold and a few Chinese dudes. (Maybe the documentary was in Russia and those were Mongols. Dunno.)

As a documentary editor, I was waiting for the camera to pan from the Chinese dudes to show the black dudes.

It never happened and then it went back to the native dude who was speaking so I was like “what an error.”

Next, I backed the video up to see if I had read the subtitle incorrectly. I hadn’t.

Letting the video play, I realized that the Chinese dudes that had been used as the b-roll cutaway ***WERE*** the so-called black dudes that the native dude was talking about.

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The immediate lesson being that if you don’t have any actual black people where you live, ***SOMEBODY*** has to be black.

😀 😀 😀 Continue reading “Laboring Under The Illusion Of A Binary Society [Loser Society]”

Relative Personal Value [Loser Society]

Your relative incompetence doesn’t make me a better person.

I’ve become bored of people trying to take credit for other people’s achievements and attempting to apply other people’s success to their personal resumes.

Here’s how things work in a Meritocracy… The better people get the better stuff. The worse people get the worse stuff.

Period. Continue reading “Relative Personal Value [Loser Society]”

Lack of Experience [Loser Society]

The only way you can know where you stand is to compete against the best.

Proverbs 27:17 says “As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.”

A lot of people have no idea who they are because they don’t have enough life experience to have figured out who they are. Continue reading “Lack of Experience [Loser Society]”