The only way you can know where you stand is to compete against the best.
You may as well have asked me how I was going to respond if Ryu threw a fireball at me.
All I can tell you is that women are disinterested in sex with people they don’t feel like having sex with. Other than that, it’s off to the races.
How is your self-esteem supposed to improve when you do something you already knew you could do? o_O
My experience with bullying is that it merely points out to me who needs to get got.