Don’t cry about it when your boy gets to hook up with a chick you wanted.
If you feel sad about it, you should just leave, instead of sabotaging your friend’s action.
So I’m watching this “reality” show, and some guys that are friends and housemates decide they’re going to go to a bar and meet some chicks.
When they get there, one of them gets a rap to a gal that, apparently, one of the other housemates there liked.
I don’t know if there was any history between her and the other guy, because this was the first episode I was seeing of the show.
So, in the confessionals (the side-interviews they do with the cast members when nobody else is around them), the extra dude is talking all kinds of trash about the guy who the girl was talking to, although, when he was there at the bar, this guy only had nice things to say about his housemate.
Off the bat, I found this to be strange. You either like people or you don’t. You either want them to get laid or you don’t. You’re happy for them to have a chance, or you aren’t. Continue reading “Sour Wingmen”
I touched on this briefly in “Wingman Responsibilities [Hunters, Part 01]”, but if you’re putting together a crew of dudes to pull chicks or even just working with one other guy, Team Selection is CRITICAL.
Sometimes, the reason you don’t get on is that you doomed yourself from the beginning by selecting the wrong team for the job.
Everybody’s not effective in all situations.
Just like Mission: Impossible, you have to figure out where you’re going, what the atmosphere is, what kind of women go there, which of your wingmen are effective with that particular demographic, and then who amongst that subset of your cronies is most likely to add value to the situation and least likely to fumble.
Continue reading “Team Selection [Hunters, Part 12]”
In response to Wingman Responsibilities [Hunters, Part 01], Reader “C Jay” writes:
“One thing i wanted to ask is about the whole follow the leader thing. Doesnt it make more tactical sense that the wing be the leader, i mean except for target selection he basically determines everything else.”
This is an excellent question and one I’ve never considered before. The short answer is: “The Top Gun leads the rap unless the ‘lesser dude’ in the situation has exclusive recon that makes him the one that should be calling the shots”. Therefore, there are actually TWO configurations you have to deal with.. Who is the leader when neither one of you has a chick yet and who is the leader once ONE OF YOU gets a rap and the other becomes “wingman” by default?
I really like this question, because I spent A. LOT. OF. TIME. as NOT THE TOP DOG when it comes to pulling chicks. There are two ways you can deal with this.. Fight against the pecking order and still try to pull the top girls or go with the flow and benefit from the trickle-down as well as learning what the players did to be successful so you can emulate them in the future. Continue reading “Follow The Leader [Hunters, Part 02]”