So, in a scenario where men get to select from a pool of women, telling the truth is actually a valid tactic..
So I’m talking with a homegirl of mine, and I’m explaining to her the various lies men tell women as a matter of principle, such as “I’m getting a divorce”, “It’s not working out between me and my girlfriend”, “I haven’t had sex with her in months”, blah blah blah, and I’m letter her know that guys know they have to say these kinds of things so women don’t feel like homewreckers for giving it up.
Her response was something to the effect of “They could just tell the truth”, which I immediately found hilarious, because of course that’s what a female would say, because they believe that males tell them the truth. Continue reading “Tell Women The Truth”
Part of the problem for guys with successful dating careers is that it becomes increasingly tougher to naturally want to be with just one woman when you experience so many women who are extraordinary in their own unique ways.
I had an interesting conversation the other day with one of my KEY mentors in the dating game. The conversation was about retirement.. Like, actually selecting one chick and not having any more of them.
I could have retired from the dating game back when I was in college.
“When is he going to introduce me to his parents?”
Meanwhile, I have NEVER.. In my entire life… Had a guy ask me a question like that about a woman he’s dating. Never. 😀
Ladies.. Pay Attention…
If you’re seeing, dating, messing with or hooking up with someone, progression isn’t guaranteed. In fact, you may very well currently be at the highest level of relationship you’re ever going to achieve with this particular guy.
If you’re not aware of how a guy relates to and/or perceives women, you won’t be able to make any educated guesses or decisions about your relationship to him, because you’ll never understand your position on The Roster. Continue reading “The Roster (Multiple Girlfriends)”