Bill Cammack

Abiola Abrams & Bill Cammack
Photo Credit: German Marin

My homegirl, Abiola Abrams [Web/Twitter/Facebook] was selected by MTV to be a “Made” coach.

Her episode was about transforming a 15-year-old, scrawny geek dude into a Ladies Man.

You can see deleted scenes on the MTV: “Made” site, and eventually, they’ll have the full episode available.

I personally enjoyed the show. I thought it was very funny, and Abiola’s advice and training was on-point.

I also found it interesting that for once, they sent a female to tell a guy how to get girls.

This actually makes sense, because Abiola can tell guys what she doesn’t like about their presentation, technique or style in the same way I can tell chicks how to dress or carry themselves if they want to be the cream that rises to the top in the dating game and snag the guy they want instead of letting the next gal bag him.

Abiola threw a viewing party at NYC’s “SoHo Room” to celebrate the show’s premiere. Here’s the link to her blog post about the evening and the photo gallery => http://www.abiolatv.com/2011/02/mtv-made-ladies-man-watching-party-at.html

The festivities included Speed Dating… Here’s a video of Abiola breakin’ down the rules:

YouTube Link: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gMoSBPr9Gxo

A good time was had by all at the party. Dude on the episode learned some essential skillz and ended up bagging not only a nice date for his party, but receiving his first kiss from a girl instead of that piece of bread that he was practicing kissing with…. Don’t ask.. Just watch the show. :D

I’m expecting more power moves from Abiola throughout 2011. Stay Tuned! :D

Edit: March 08, 2011 – Watch Abiola’s episode below or click here to watch “Ep. 31 Ladies Man” on MTV.

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I’ve been gettin’ my music thing on pretty heavily recently.

I didn’t think I was going to derive any good dating topics from studying mix engineering, but I most definitely did! >:D

I’ve been looking for a long time for a good analogy that explains the type of relationships that some of y’all are in, where you think you have say in things, but you really don’t.

The way I’m going to do that is by talking about two pieces of musical equipment that do the exact same thing, but in significantly different ways. Read the rest of this entry »

Basketball Wives

So they just dropped the first episode of the second season of “Basketball Wives”, right? :D

I had never heard of this show through its first season, so I decided to see what might POSSIBLY be interesting about wives of basketball players. Read the rest of this entry »

Reader “Buxom” left a comment the other day on “Why You Got Dumped After Sex that requires its own post to discuss:

Buxom: I need some advice. About a year ago I removed myself from an 8 year relationship after finding out my ex got not one but two women pregnant.

Good Idea.

Buxom: I uprooted my life and moved back in with my mother and went back to school. After 6 months of dating with no “hooking up” I realized I had unresolved trust issues and wasn’t ready to be in another relationship.

This makes sense. Part of entering a “relationship” with someone is vetting them.. personally vouching for them. You decide, using your own instincts that this person is trustworthy and actually loves you, yadda yadda.

When you find out something like dude hooked up with not only one, but TWO OTHER WOMEN (that you’re aware of) without using protection during an 8-year relationship with you, potentially endangering your health and or ENTIRE LIFE in the process, it’s going to be a traumatic experience. Read the rest of this entry »

We’re going to file this one under “Common Sense”…

I’m watching Millionaire Matchmaker and Patti’s trying to hook this millionaire chick (MC) up with a date, right?

So she tells the MC to let the guy plan the date… Read the rest of this entry »

Now that Rachel has me watching “Millionaire Matchmaker”, I can see that this is going to be my new weekly source of material, now that “Jersey Shore” is over.

So, this week, this millionaire dude is on the show and Patti asks him what he’s looking for in a female. He basically says that his only requirement is that he wants her to have an ass like Kim Kardashian:

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I got to spend some time with some CLOSE friends the other night. It was a very grounding experience for me. I’d like to talk about something very simple.

Calling something a particular thing doesn’t make that thing what you called it.

Not calling something anything doesn’t make it less than what it actually is. Read the rest of this entry »

I wrote “Ladies: Why He Won’t Call You His Girlfriend” almost exactly two years ago, on September 29, 2008.

On September 02, 2010, a commenter on that post said:

You need an article on “Why She won’t call you her Boyfriend”. It’s 2010, you actually have strong independent women with options now honey. Until you prove you stand out in the crowd and DESERVE me… why would you have rights to claim me?

This is a BRILLIANT idea! :D I think I’ll talk about this right now. Read the rest of this entry »

Over the last couple of weeks, no fewer than three of my homegirls (and probably more that I’m not aware of) have dumped a guy because of his personality.

I’m always amused by these stories because I like to consider the reverse situation and whether I’d stop kickin’ it with a chick for the same reasons. Read the rest of this entry »

According to the ‘Jersey Shore’ glossary, a Grenade is defined as:

1) A large, portly woman of an unsightly nature and violent disposition. 2) A difficult, prickly (often sober) friend of a potential conquest who blocks your advances on their friend’s behalf. A wingman is required at all times to “dive on the grenade” to ensure your success in the bedroom.

Obviously, those two definitions have nothing to do with each other. I understand why whomever wrote that was confused. The Fellaz changed the description of a Grenade after a couple of episodes, which will throw people off that don’t know what the **** they’re talking about. Read the rest of this entry »

Facebook just announced their “Places” app which enables people to send updates about where they are right now to their FB friends.

That’s all well & good, except they added the ability for people you’re connected to on Facebook to broadcast YOUR location by tagging you in THEIR location updates. :/ Read the rest of this entry »

**** “24″ Spoilers. If you didn’t watch the season & series finale yet, don’t read this post **** Read the rest of this entry »