Virtual Virgins (You Got Served)
So, I’m talking to this chick I know, and she’s telling me about this ultra-positive, transformative physical experience she had with a guy.
I’m listening to what she’s saying, and while she’s astounded, I’m thinking “Finally… Someone did the right thing.”
I explained to her that what dude did, while uncommon, was exactly what he was SUPPOSED TO DO if his goal was to show her a good time and/or lock her down.
Are You A Virgin?
Unfortunately, the way the game’s set up, with guys having to convince women to have sex with them and women deciding whether they want to lay down or not, it’s not conducive to guys actually putting in WORK when they finally get on. Read the rest of this entry »
Privilege Of Desirability
Reader “Charles” left this comment on my post “Why Guys Catcall”:
Charles: “It’s the downside of the privileged position women occupy. The desired. The valued. Men have no street value, their bodies are not desired, in fact their nudity is considered visual assault. Catcalling may be a way for the oppressed to reclaim power and agency which the mating game forbids them.”
I know Charles personally, and I realize that he really enjoys debate and finding the political significance in just about ANY scenario, haha, but he brings up a valid and important point.
Women complain, as they very well should, that guys that they don’t feel like hooking up with approach them without invitation and discuss whatever type of sex they want to have with her or try to get a date or just tell her how sexy she looks today. That’s now known as Street Harassment. At the same time, the alternate reality of the vast majority of men needs to be considered as well, which is that women *NEVER* approach them and suggest sex. o_O Read the rest of this entry »
Who Is Bob?
So I’m at a party and some sort of casual conversation is going on.
There’s a break in the flow, and after a few seconds of silence, this woman says:
“I love my Magic Bullet! :D”
Now.. I live in New York City, where there are entirely too many women and not enough men here to, um…… service the needs of our entire female population. Read the rest of this entry »
Makeup [The Okey-Doke, Part 01]
So I’m having a discussion with reader “Ryan” about whether certain aspects of the rap industry are fake or whether rap is “real” theater..
I’m making a point about how kids listen to rap music written by wealthy guys who live in mansions and who also happen to be movie and television stars, yet they write about bussin’ gats and being on the corner all the time.. where you never see them unless it’s a music video shoot location and their off-duty-cop bodyguards are standing right next to them with vests on and carrying licensed weapons……
And somehow, I was reminded of the makeup industry.
Cute = Good
Amongst other curvy aspects of the female form, I like cute girls (women, gals, whatever y’all like to call yourselves). I like girls that I enjoy looking at ‘fresh out the box’. Read the rest of this entry »
Shocking Dating Advice!
A friend of mine told me my dating posts are sometimes shocking to her. :D
This is a good thing… You can either feel shocked now or feel shocked later when/if something happens to you in the future. Read the rest of this entry »
Ladies: Stop Bringing Extra People On Dates
We’re going to file this one under “Common Sense”…
I’m watching Millionaire Matchmaker and Patti’s trying to hook this millionaire chick (MC) up with a date, right?
So she tells the MC to let the guy plan the date… Read the rest of this entry »
Misogyny, Co-Opted
ok.. So I’m watching one of my new favorite shows, Millionaire Matchmaker, and this dude that has a mohawk haircut in the year 2010 and two earrings is describing one of the millionaires that’s going to be on the show this week and he goes “He is basically a misogynist”.
So when I hear that, I’m now prepared to listen to evidence of how this guy hates women….. because that’s what misogyny is. Read the rest of this entry »
Women Date Up, Men Don’t
So.. I was listening to this blogtalk radio show that Danielle Ricks hosted, right?.. And I’m running my mouth in the text chat room and say something regarding how it gets tougher for women to date, the older they get and it gets easier for men, and it’s like “Huh? What?” :D
So I thought this was blatantly obvious, but let me get into it right quick, one time for the people. :D Read the rest of this entry »
Fellaz: Stop Cockblocking The Ladies!
Cockblocking normally occurs when nosey-ass chicks refuse to mind their own business and attempt to stop a guy from getting laid.
There are other times, however, when it’s a GUY’S fault that a GAL doesn’t get to meet a guy she might like to hook up with. o_O Read the rest of this entry »
Team Selection [Hunters, Part 12]
I touched on this briefly in “Wingman Responsibilities [Hunters, Part 01]“, but if you’re putting together a crew of dudes to pull chicks or even just working with one other guy, Team Selection is CRITICAL.
Sometimes, the reason you don’t get on is that you doomed yourself from the beginning by selecting the wrong team for the job.
Everybody’s not effective in all situations.
Just like Mission: Impossible, you have to figure out where you’re going, what the atmosphere is, what kind of women go there, which of your wingmen are effective with that particular demographic, and then who amongst that subset of your cronies is most likely to add value to the situation and least likely to fumble.
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Online Dating (False Advertising)
A homegirl of mine was just victimized by the most egregious case of online dating false advertising I’ve ever heard of! :D .. WOW!.. I mean, it was horrific. Some people ought to be absolutely ashamed and embarrassed about how they present themselves online vs. how they actually are in real life (IRL). Read the rest of this entry »
HollaBack Girls 04
I found out about HollaBack Girls three years ago, back in 2007. Their apparent goal is to create a space on the internet where women can express themselves about what they call “Street Harassment”:
http://hollabacknyc.blogspot.com/2005/10/hollafaq.html#q2: Street harassment is a form of sexual harassment that takes place in public spaces.
My previous articles about HollaBack Girls are located here, here & here. Read the rest of this entry »




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