How To Approach Women

Reader “Grace” asked me what my technique was for approaching women…

Reader “Grace” asked me what my technique was for approaching women. I gave her the short answer to her question, but wasn’t able to elaborate, because I was responding on my Facebook page and not my blog, where I can go on and on about this stuff, ad infinitum.

Who Made Who?

Life is different for guys that women actually like and/or are attracted to.

This is why my blog posts about dating describe general circumstances that occur for and to common people.

It wouldn’t do you any good for me to tell you my technique for doing something, because it only works for me and people similar to me… It’s not something I’m doing, it’s the medium or environment surrounding me that makes anything work or not work for me.

For example, I’m highly educated (alum.MIT.edu/www/billcammack), so even if I know what the current slang words mean, they sound completely different when I’m saying them, compared to someone that actually lives life “in the street”. Continue reading “How To Approach Women”

Why You Can’t Get A Boyfriend In NYC

Reader “Susan” left quite a lengthy comment on my post Women’s Guide To NYC Dating, so I decided to make my response to her its own post so we can all benefit from this discussion…

Hi Bill, well thanks for the long response.

Just to let you know, back in about February a few months after having moved (as a life-long new Yorker) to the midwest, I met a guy. Actually, I met a couple guys. Hell, I could have met more had I went out on the town a fraction as often as I did in New York. But the one I’m dating is a keeper. We quickly became boyfriend-girlfriend, and it’s WONDERFUL. Hell, I need to start practicing yoga to limber up. Every moment is wonderful, and we both acknowledge it. Easily. I trust, I give, I need, and I am trusted, given to and needed. We think it’s because we have ‘perspective’ as he says. He’s not that experienced, nor am I, even at my age. And this is the one thing I’ve always been looking for in a person. It’s hard to even explain, if I had more time…

I’m very happy for you, Susan. 🙂 I hope you get to enjoy your relationship with this fellow for a very long time.

This is what happens when you move to the sticks. You automatically remove the rest of your competition. It’s much easier for ANYBODY to shine in an environment where they happen to be an anomaly. Continue reading “Why You Can’t Get A Boyfriend In NYC”

KR3TS 20th Anniversary Dance Showcase

KR3TS (Keep Rising To The Top) Dance Company is performing its 20th Anniversary Dance Showcase on April 8 & 9, 2011.

Visit kr3ts.com to purchase tickets or call +1.646.302.1817.

KR3TS 20th Anniversary Dance Showcase, April 8 & 9, 2011

Here’s a video I edited from dance practice:


Youtube Link => youtube.com/watch?v=A7vUJymfUyE

Song: KR3T’s (kr3ts.com)
Artist: Yannie Falcon (Facebook | YouTube | Twitter | MySpace | Reverbnation) Ft. C-Nos
Video Edit: Bill Cammack

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blip.tv NYC Holiday Party 2010

blip.tv NYC Holiday Party 2010 (December 10, 2010):

Bill & Dina
Bill & Dina

Mike & Bill
Mike & Bill

Grace, Bill & Charles
Grace, Charles & Bill

 

Do we look different? o_O (April 07, 2007):

Group hug for Blip and Blip lovers
Bill, Mike, Dina, & Grace


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Snuggie WHAT? Snuggie WHO?

Oz Sultan (@ozsultan) showcases telegraph machines and steampunk binoculars in a leopard snuggie? o_O

Direct Download: http://blip.tv/file/get/BillCammack-SnuggieWHATSnuggieWHO446.m4v
YouTube Link: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k6TJDIMkpDg


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The Sense Monogamy Makes (Exclusive Relationships)

I think monogamy makes sense under three conditions.. Fear, Scarcity & Obsession. Continue reading “The Sense Monogamy Makes (Exclusive Relationships)”

Dating is like Asians on Television

Marisa, Bill & Melinda
Bill surrounded by Marisa & Melinda from uncensoredinterview.com

Asians In Manhattan

Please don’t ask me what’s going on in this picture. Thank you very much. Moving right along….. 😀

There are A LOT of Asians in Manhattan, NYC. However, if your “understanding” of Manhattan comes from watching television or films, you’d probably assume that there weren’t any at all.

I don’t know anything about the casting industry, but it pretty much seems that unless someone writes elements specifically attributed to Asians (and we all know what THOSE are) into a show, you’re not going to see any Asian brothaz headlining American films unless they blow up large, like Chow Yun-Fat.

I was actually expecting to see another one of my favorites, Tony Leung show up on the scene, but that’s not really the point I wanted to make. Continue reading “Dating is like Asians on Television”

World In My Eyes (Happy New Year!!!)

For this last post of 2009, I’d like to thank my regular readers & commenters who made this blog so much more than it otherwise would have been in 2009. In “number of comments” order, according to my stats: (capitalization left the way y’all typed it into your comments, haha)

FRANK, Steve, fishingrod, C Jay, alexis, Derek Williams, sandra soroka, jonny goldstein, Roxanne Darling Tina, Tyme White, Richard Gaskins, Taiwan Brown, Liz, Carrie, Soulpowr, Robert, Sonja Cassella, haldol, Lindsey, Rahsan Seifullah, TheJennTaFur, honey, dina, PurpleCar, Annie, Anna, Kenya, Jill, Stephanie, Michael J. Carrasquillo, Justin C., drew olanoff, Susan, Rupert, Joe Cool, Steve Woolf, NIgel, Justin Kownacki, Jennifer, mike, NunoXEI, Suki Fuller, Charles Hope, Joe Cascio, Elizabeth, Secret Cameraman, Penelope Trunk, David Kowarsky, jay dedman, Steve Garfield, Adrienne Brawley, Laure, Sean Bohan, Matt, Asabi, Gladys, Deena, seedoflife & Eric Woods.

Thanks also to all the lurkers and email subscribers like Albee & Gail and all the people that have approached me IRL and kicked off conversations about my posts, especially my toughest critic, Corinne, whose candid/biting/accurate commentary I’ve come to cherish and dread at the same time! 😀 *MUAHZ*

Corinne's Birthday

Thanks, Everybody!!! HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!! 😀

I’ll see if I can come up with something interesting for the 2010 season. 😉
 

Let me take you on a trip
Around the world and back
And you won’t have to move
You just sit still

Now let your mind do the walking
And let my body do the talking
Let me show you the world in my eyes

Now let my body do the moving
And let my hands do the soothing
Let me show you the world in my eyes

That’s all there is…
Nothing more than you can feel now
That’s all there is…….

~ Bill Cammack | @BillCammack