Appreciate Your Girlfriend
Appreciating your girlfriend is one of the best things you can do to keep your relationship fresh, interesting, and exciting. :D
All too often, we completely ignore or just plain fail to acknowledge “the little things” that our gals do for us that make our lives so much better.
Sure.. We make sure she “gets hers”, but other than that, what are we really doing for the special women in our lives? o_O Read the rest of this entry »
Facebook: Should You Add Someone You’re Dating?
Reader “Katie” asked me when I felt people who have just started dating should add each other on Facebook.
This is a very interesting question, and potentially complicated.
It depends both on how people utilize Facebook and how they date. Read the rest of this entry »
How To Starting Dating Again
Now that Valentine’s Day, 2011 is over and you just found out that you’re not your significant other‘s primary relationship, you’re probably thinking about bouncing… breaking up with that person.. ending your relationship and starting all over…
We’ve already talked about how to get over your ex-boyfriend and how to get over your ex-girlfriend, but those are emotional considerations.
Getting back in the game might be a bigger leap than you imagined, so let’s discuss a few issues… Read the rest of this entry »
Dumped For Personality?
Over the last couple of weeks, no fewer than three of my homegirls (and probably more that I’m not aware of) have dumped a guy because of his personality.
I’m always amused by these stories because I like to consider the reverse situation and whether I’d stop kickin’ it with a chick for the same reasons. Read the rest of this entry »
Honesty, Respect & Apologies in Relationships
A lot of people seriously overestimate the amount of influence they have in their relationships. This is because they don’t understand how and why they were selected by their significant other in the first place. Read the rest of this entry »
Is Your Girlfriend or Boyfriend a Liar?
My ex and I had a superbly, fantastically EXCELLENT relationship for approximately four years… She would lie to me, and I would catch her lying. :D
I’m sure that doesn’t sound excellent to *you*, but it was for me. The fact that she was constantly lying meant that she was constantly trying to get over on me. It meant that she was going ALL OUT to get her way in situations. I admire and respect that, and I’m the same way. I want to WIN. I like being around people that WANT TO WIN and are willing to do whatever they have to do to achieve their goals.
What’s good about liars?
The fantastic part about this is that I kept experiencing instances where I could collect data about how she acts, sounds and looks when she’s telling the truth and when she isn’t. Eventually, maybe one year into our relationship, well, let’s say the ‘romantic’ part of our relationship, since we’re still close, to this very day… I had learned her behaviors so well that I could tell by her breathing patterns how she felt about things. There was this little “catch” in her breathing that would occur when she stopped “being” and started “thinking”. It was like Keanu seeing the double-cat in The Matrix. I knew that whatever I was about to get was something she was crafting or making up as opposed to something that she was naturally giving me, from her heart & soul. Read the rest of this entry »




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