I touched on this briefly in “Wingman Responsibilities [Hunters, Part 01]”, but if you’re putting together a crew of dudes to pull chicks or even just working with one other guy, Team Selection is CRITICAL.
Sometimes, the reason you don’t get on is that you doomed yourself from the beginning by selecting the wrong team for the job.
Everybody’s not effective in all situations.
Just like Mission: Impossible, you have to figure out where you’re going, what the atmosphere is, what kind of women go there, which of your wingmen are effective with that particular demographic, and then who amongst that subset of your cronies is most likely to add value to the situation and least likely to fumble.
Continue reading “Team Selection [Hunters, Part 12]”
People always want to know how to make money with social media.
The problem is that social media doesn’t make money FOR you. Social media ENABLES YOU to make money…. maybe.
Everybody wants to know how their sales are going to increase once they hire you to create a website or set them up with a presence on Facebook or Twitter. Continue reading “Social Media Budgeting (Cars, Not Trophies)”
In response to Wingman Responsibilities [Hunters, Part 01], Reader “C Jay” writes:
“One thing i wanted to ask is about the whole follow the leader thing. Doesnt it make more tactical sense that the wing be the leader, i mean except for target selection he basically determines everything else.”
This is an excellent question and one I’ve never considered before. The short answer is: “The Top Gun leads the rap unless the ‘lesser dude’ in the situation has exclusive recon that makes him the one that should be calling the shots”. Therefore, there are actually TWO configurations you have to deal with.. Who is the leader when neither one of you has a chick yet and who is the leader once ONE OF YOU gets a rap and the other becomes “wingman” by default?
I really like this question, because I spent A. LOT. OF. TIME. as NOT THE TOP DOG when it comes to pulling chicks. There are two ways you can deal with this.. Fight against the pecking order and still try to pull the top girls or go with the flow and benefit from the trickle-down as well as learning what the players did to be successful so you can emulate them in the future. Continue reading “Follow The Leader [Hunters, Part 02]”
Ladiesâ€¦ If you really want to learn about your man’s personality, hang around him when he’s playing video games.
All of y’all that are dating gamers know I’m telling the truth.
The way he plays his games is the exact same way he’s going to interact with YOUâ€¦.. umâ€¦ assuming that he cares as much about YOU as he does his VIDEO GAMESâ€¦.. which isn’t likely. Continue reading “Video Games & Dating, Part 01”